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#368 🔸 How much of your life you live for yourself and how much for the image you manage for others

21 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The courage to descend into one's own interior, which I wrote about last time, brings to the surface something many prefer not to name directly: the distance between who you truly are and who you try to appear to be. Not because you have bad intent...

#367 🔸 What you find when you have the courage to look at what you have avoided in yourself all your life

21 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Self-forgiveness, which I wrote about last time, opens a territory many deliberately avoid: their own deep interior, with everything that is there, including what is not pleasant, does not fit the image we hold of ourselves, or was not considered a...

#366 🔸 Why you are harder on yourself than on anyone else and what that costs you

20 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Integrating sexuality and sensuality into personal evolution, which I wrote about last time, requires a better relationship with oneself. And that is precisely what brings me today to a subject I consider fundamental and that is rarely discussed wi...

#365 🔸 How to make your sexual and sensual life a journey, not a destination

19 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Deep intimate connection, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimacy is not a goal in itself. It is a journey. And precisely this perspective, of sexuality and sensuality as paths of personal evolution rather than destinations to reach o...

#364 🔸 What happens to love and respect when two people truly allow themselves to be seen

19 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Authenticity in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, produces something that cannot be produced in any other way: deep intimate connection. And precisely this connection, when genuinely lived, does something remarkable to the relationship as a...

#363 🔸 Why many people have sex but few are truly themselves in intimacy

18 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Desires and fantasies integrated harmoniously into the couple relationship, which I wrote about last time, require an ingredient we assume is present and ignore in practice: authenticity. Not authenticity as a declared value, but authenticity lived...

#362 🔸 How to talk to your partner about what you truly want without being afraid of the reaction

17 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Mutual presence and attention, which I wrote about last time, create the soil in which desire can grow freely. And once that soil exists, the courage also arises to bring into the relationship something many people keep strictly private: fantasies...

#361 🔸 What makes the difference between being next to someone and truly being with someone

17 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Reflection on sexual experiences as a source of self-knowledge, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a conclusion that is both simple and profound: the quality of intimate life depends less on what you do and more on how present you are in w...

#360 🔸 What every sexual experience tells you about yourself if you know how to listen

16 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Conscious intimacy in long-term relationships, which I wrote about last time, requires staying curious and present. And there is a level of this curiosity that turns inward, towards your own sexual experiences as sources of self-knowledge. Not in a...

#359 🔸 The secret of couples who remain in love after years and what they do differently from the rest

15 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Vulnerability that intensifies attraction, which I wrote about last time, is a practice, not a moment. And precisely this quality of deliberate, time-repeated practice is what makes conscious intimacy possible in long-term relationships. Today's su...