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3 Sep 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05
The healthy space in a relationship, which I wrote about last time, asks us to remain distinct individuals. But there is a mechanism that sabotages this distinction without our noticing: projection. The way our unhealed wounds attach themselves to...
3 Sep 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.10
Being your own best friend, which I wrote about last time, brings us directly to a related theme: how you remain yourself in the presence of the other. And perhaps there is no more practical and more alive question in any couple relationship than thi...
2 Sep 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
Integrating rejections as lessons in inner reorientation, which I wrote about last time, requires a resource that does not come from outside: the capacity to be alongside yourself when you are alone. Not chosen and comfortable solitude, but absolut...
1 Sep 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
The courage to start over without guarantees, which I wrote about last time, runs inevitably into one of the most difficult inner obstacles: the memory of rejections. Those moments when you risked something, showed yourself, and received a no, expl...
1 Sep 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05
Catching self-sabotage in the act, which I wrote about last time, means choosing differently even when old patterns pull in the opposite direction. But there is a specific moment when that different choice is harder than in any other circumstance:...
31 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
The mind turned into a welcoming space, which I wrote about last time, makes something specific and practical possible: noticing what is happening inside you before acting from that place. And there is no more concrete application of that capacity...
30 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.12
Dignity in the face of injustice, which I wrote about last time, means not letting what comes from outside destroy you. But there is a more persistent tribunal than any external circumstance, one that operates non-stop, without breaks and without r...
30 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06
The courage to be weak, which I wrote about last time, is a form of honesty towards one's own limit. But there are moments in life when limits come not from within but from outside, from what happens to you without your choosing it, from injustices...
29 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Worth that does not depend on external validation, which I wrote about last time, is closely tied to something even harder to reach: the capacity to be weak without feeling defeated. Not weakness as a permanent state, but weakness as a real moment,...
28 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
Recalibrating expectations of yourself in hard periods, which I wrote about last time, requires knowing who you are independent of performance. But there is an even subtler form of the same test, lived daily without being recognised: who are you wh...
