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18 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Absorbed family beliefs, which I wrote about last time, profoundly shape what we believe we deserve and from whom. And one of the most frequently inherited beliefs, with direct consequences on relationships, is this: that my happiness depends on wh...
17 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The inability to receive joy, which I wrote about last time, has roots deeper than they appear on the surface. And one of the deepest roots, probably the deepest, is the belief system we absorbed in our family of origin. Not the beliefs we delibera...
16 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Identity uncertainty, which I wrote about last time, is one of the forms in which we do not know how to be with ourselves. But there is another form of powerlessness towards our own person, more subtle and less often recognised: the inability to re...
16 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Making peace with our younger versions, which I wrote about last time, requires accepting that identity is not a fixed point but a continuous process. And if it is a continuous process, it means there are moments when you are in the middle of it, w...
15 Aug 2026 3 minute read 1 comment luciman
Faithfulness to your own vision, which I wrote about last time, requires a clear relationship with who you are now. But there is a tension that complicates this relationship more than we acknowledge: the way we relate to our younger versions. To th...
14 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The emotional alphabet, which I wrote about last time, helps us understand ourselves better. But there are moments when, even with all possible inner clarity, you find yourself facing an obstacle of a different kind: you are not understood by those...
13 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Working with the shadow, which I wrote about last time, requires a skill many of us were not given: the capacity to name what we feel with precision. Not in vague terms, not in broad categories of good or bad, but with that emotional granularity th...
13 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The sense of not belonging, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a deeper question: why do we sometimes not fit even with ourselves? Why is there a distance between who we show ourselves to be and what we experience internally? The answer is...
12 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Curiosity about one's own person, which I wrote about last time, sometimes opens uncomfortable territories. And one of the most uncomfortable, because it is the least honestly discussed, is the sense of not belonging. The feeling that you do not fi...
11 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The voice of insufficiency, which I wrote about last time, does something specific and subtle: it convinces us that we already know ourselves, that we are already mapped, that there is nothing left to discover inside except deficiencies. And this c...
