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#358 🔸 Why the person who shows fragility in front of you instantly becomes more attractive

14 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Sexuality as a bridge between the inner world and the relationship, which I wrote about last time, shows us that what we do not say appears anyway. And there is one thing we avoid more than anything else in intimacy, precisely because we instinctiv...

#357 🔸 Why what you do not say to your partner shows up in bed anyway

13 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The tension between freedom and commitment, which I wrote about last time, is experienced differently by each person and resolved, or not resolved, in different spaces of the relationship. But there is one space in which this tension, like all othe...

#356 🔸 Love's paradox: how to be free precisely because you chose to stay

13 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The emotions that shape desire and attraction, which I wrote about last time, show us that intimate life is profoundly influenced by what happens within. But there is a broader tension, one that extends beyond the chemistry of the moment, one that...

#355 🔸 Why sometimes you desire them intensely and other times not at all, even though apparently nothing has changed

12 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Sexuality as a space of knowing, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimate life is far more complex than a simple physical exchange. And one of the most fascinating and least understood complexities of it is precisely the variability of...

#354 🔸 What you did not know about yourself until you were truly intimate with someone

11 Jul 2026 3 minute read 1 comment luciman

  Everyday sensuality, which I wrote about last time, is the soil from which intimacy grows. But there are moments when intimacy surpasses the sensory and becomes something deeper, a space of knowing, both of the self and of the other, at a level tha...

#353 🔸 Why your sensual life does not happen in the bedroom but in the kitchen, on the street, and at the table

11 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Respect and love expressed through physical intimacy, which I wrote about last time, do not appear from nothing. They are built from the quality of presence you bring to every moment of the day, not only to the moments declared as intimate. And tha...

#352 🔸 How to tell whether your intimacy contains genuine respect or just habit

10 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Introspection, which I wrote about last time, brings us closer to our own desires and needs. But there is a dimension of intimate life that is not only about what you want, but about how you treat the other in everything you build together: respect...

#351 🔸 Why you do not know what you truly want in intimacy and how to find out

9 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Sensual energy, which I wrote about last time, is cultivated through presence in your own life. But presence in the inner life requires something more specific and more difficult than presence in the outer world: genuine introspection. Not anxious...

#350 🔸 Why some people attract without doing anything special and how to become one of them

9 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Empathy cultivated in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, makes you a more present and more attentive partner. But there is a dimension of presence that extends beyond the couple relationship and that manifests in everything you are and everyt...

#349 🔸 How to become a better partner through what you learn in intimacy

8 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Intimacy as a form of deep communication, which I wrote about last time, shows us that in the intimate space more happens than physical or emotional exchanges. There is also a form of learning, about the other and about yourself. And one of the mos...