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1 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The absorbed taboos I wrote about last time shape our expectations about what is possible and permitted in intimate life. But beyond taboos, there is something even more specific and personal that shapes our perception of relationships: the intimat...
30 Jun 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman
Sexual energy spills over into all areas of life, as I wrote last time. But this energy is often blocked or distorted by something we absorbed long before we understood what we were absorbing: taboos. Not those declared explicitly, but the implicit o...
29 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Self-love reflected in sensuality, which I wrote about last time, does not remain contained within private life. It manifests in the way you are present in the world, in the quality of your presence towards others, in the energy you bring to any soci...
29 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Conscious presence in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, requires something I have not said explicitly until now: to be well enough with yourself to be genuinely there. To not be so preoccupied with how you look, how you are perceived, or wha...
28 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The balance between pleasure and responsibility, which I wrote about last time, is only possible when you are genuinely present in what you are experiencing, not on autopilot and not behind a wall of self-censorship. And precisely this conscious pr...
27 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Fantasies and desires in intimate life, which I wrote about last time, show us that sexuality is a territory of inner freedom. But freedom, in any domain of life, has a dual face: it does not exist in the absence of responsibility. And precisely th...
27 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Freedom in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, is not only the freedom to be yourself in the other's presence. It is also the freedom to have a rich inner life, including fantasies, desires, images, and scenarios you have not lived and may not...
26 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Sensual play, which I wrote about last time, is only possible where something deeper exists: a sense of safety. Not the safety that produces passive comfort, but the safety that liberates, that allows you to be more yourself than you would be alone....
25 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Vulnerability, which I wrote about last time, deepens connection and reactivates desire. But there is another face of this openness, one that is lighter, less explored, and equally important: play. Sensual play, play within intimacy, the capacity t...
25 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Sexuality as a path of self-development, which I wrote about last time, requires showing yourself, being curious, and remaining present even when it is uncomfortable. And precisely this showing, this deliberate exposure of something real in you, is...
