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#378 🔸 Why your emotional wounds say more about your strength than about your weakness

28 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The inner centre of gravity, which I wrote about last time, is built partly from what we have traversed and how we traversed it. And there is a category of experiences that contributes to this centre more than anything else, if viewed correctly: em...

#377 🔸 Why some people remain whole in chaos and others fall apart and what sets them apart

28 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Personal dignity in moments of solitude, which I wrote about last time, is connected to something deeper: the capacity to remain anchored in yourself regardless of what is happening outside. And precisely this is one of the most valuable skills a p...

#376 🔸 What remains of you when nobody is watching and what that tells you

27 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The honest gaze towards oneself, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a question few people ask directly: who are you when you are in front of nobody? When you are not performing, not adapting, not being observed? What remains? And more impo...

#375 🔸 What the mirror does not tell you and how to truly know yourself beyond what is visible

26 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Comfort with your own skin, which I wrote about last time, presupposes a relationship with oneself that extends far beyond the physical surface. And yet the mirror is often the first and most frequently consulted instrument of self-evaluation. What...

#374 🔸 Why you feel uncomfortable with yourself and how to change that without pretending to be someone else

26 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Thinking in shades of grey, which I wrote about last time, is also a form of accepting complexity, including your own complexity. And precisely this self-acceptance, in all its forms and imperfections, is what makes it possible to inhabit your own...

#373 🔸 Why thinking in extremes destroys your relationships and how to get out of it

25 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Intuition versus fear, which I wrote about last time, requires a capacity many of us underestimate: tolerating uncertainty. Being able to sit with an I don't know, with a maybe, with a reality that is neither entirely good nor entirely bad. And pre...

#372 🔸 How to know if what you feel is a genuine signal or just fear speaking

24 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Identity built around wounds, which I wrote about last time, produces a constant inner noise that makes everything else difficult to hear. And among the things hardest to hear, precisely because the noise of fear so often covers it, is the voice of...

#371 🔸 Why the story you tell about your wounds can become a prison

23 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Peace with your own inabilities, which I wrote about last time, requires looking at yourself honestly. But there is a form of honesty that can transform, without you noticing, into something far more complicated: the story you build around your wou...

#370 🔸 Why surrendering the fight with yourself is the most courageous thing you can do

23 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

The exhaustion of the soul, which I wrote about last time, often comes from the continuous struggle with something that cannot be won: your own limits, your own inabilities, your own aspects that do not fit the ideal image you have constructed of you...

#369 🔸 Why you sleep enough and still wake up tired and what that tells you about yourself

22 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The distance between who you are and who you appear to be, which I wrote about last time, consumes energy in ways we do not account for and do not recognise as loss. And precisely this invisible form of exhaustion, the kind that does not appear in...