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21 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
Liberation from the need for absolute control, which I wrote about last time, requires something paradoxical: recognising that you cannot manage everything alone. And that is precisely today's subject, one that the culture of independence and self-...
20 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07
Inner integrity, which I wrote about last time, requires being present and coherent in the moment that is. But there is something that systematically steals this presence from us, something so well trained and so culturally accepted that we barely...
19 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
The saviour mask, which I wrote about last time, is built partly for others' eyes. And that is precisely the tension I want to explore today: the difference between who you are when you are seen and who you are when nobody is watching. Not as a mor...
18 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08
Responsibility towards your own happiness, which I wrote about last time, has an opposite face that many people experience with equal intensity: the need to be responsible for others' happiness. To repair, to save, to help even when not asked, to f...
18 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.10
Absorbed family beliefs, which I wrote about last time, profoundly shape what we believe we deserve and from whom. And one of the most frequently inherited beliefs, with direct consequences on relationships, is this: that my happiness depends on wh...
17 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
The inability to receive joy, which I wrote about last time, has roots deeper than they appear on the surface. And one of the deepest roots, probably the deepest, is the belief system we absorbed in our family of origin. Not the beliefs we delibera...
16 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07
Identity uncertainty, which I wrote about last time, is one of the forms in which we do not know how to be with ourselves. But there is another form of powerlessness towards our own person, more subtle and less often recognised: the inability to re...
16 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
Making peace with our younger versions, which I wrote about last time, requires accepting that identity is not a fixed point but a continuous process. And if it is a continuous process, it means there are moments when you are in the middle of it, w...
15 Aug 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.03
Faithfulness to your own vision, which I wrote about last time, requires a clear relationship with who you are now. But there is a tension that complicates this relationship more than we acknowledge: the way we relate to our younger versions. To th...
14 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
The emotional alphabet, which I wrote about last time, helps us understand ourselves better. But there are moments when, even with all possible inner clarity, you find yourself facing an obstacle of a different kind: you are not understood by those...
