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#398 🔸 Why the voice that tells you that you are not enough is the most destructive tenant in your mind

11 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The inner rhythm we spoke about last time cannot be honoured if there is a voice constantly sabotaging it from within. And there is such a voice in many people, perhaps most: the voice that says you are not enough. Not good enough, not successful e...

#397 🔸 Why you feel behind everyone and how to exit a race nobody invited you to run

10 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Clarity that comes after confusion, which I wrote about last time, has its own rhythm and cannot be rushed. And precisely this is the tension I want to explore today: the difference between your inner rhythm, the biological, emotional, and psycholo...

#396 🔸 Why clarity does not come from thinking more and where you truly find it

9 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

Liberation from the past, which I wrote about last time, does not happen through an intellectual decision. It happens through traversing a process that, before clarity, inevitably passes through a zone the mind detests: confusion. And precisely today...

#395 🔸 Why your past takes the place of your present without you realising and how to stop it

9 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Values as a compass in crisis, which I wrote about last time, anchor us in the present. But there is something that works against this presence more persistently than anything else: the past. Not the past as memory or as lesson, but the past as an...

#394 🔸 What remains of you when everything collapses and how to build on that

8 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The body as a source of information, which I wrote about last time, brings us closer to a level of self-knowledge that cannot be falsified. But there is an even deeper level, one that is not of sensation but of values, of the things we orient by wh...

#393 🔸 Why your body knows things your mind refuses to acknowledge

7 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The need to always be right, which I wrote about last time, lives in the mind, in the arguments we build and defend. But there is a source of information the mind frequently ignores, precisely because it cannot be argued or controlled: the body. An...

#392 🔸 Why some people cannot lose an argument and what that costs them in relationships

7 Aug 2026 3 minute read 1 comment luciman

  Stopping self-abandonment, which I wrote about last time, requires recognising your needs and expressing them. But there is a trap at the other end of the spectrum, equally common and equally costly: the need to never be the one who yields, to neve...

#391 🔸 Why you always give way and how to stop without feeling selfish

6 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Grief after self-illusions, which I wrote about last time, leaves something valuable in its wake: a clearer sight. And one of the clearest and most painful things this clarity produces is recognising how much energy you have invested in being who y...

#390 🔸 What happens inside you when you discover you are not who you thought you were

5 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The traps of the illuminated ego, which I wrote about last time, show us that the hardest thing to abandon is not a relationship or a place, but an image of ourselves. And that is precisely today's subject: what you do when an illusion about yourse...

#389 🔸 Why people who believe they are healed are sometimes the most difficult to be in a relationship with

5 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Becoming the shelter of your own fears, which I wrote about last time, is a continuous process, not a destination. And precisely this nuance, that healing and personal growth are journeys, not arrival points, is what makes a certain type of person...