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8 hours ago 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Desires and fantasies integrated harmoniously into the couple relationship, which I wrote about last time, require an ingredient we assume is present and ignore in practice: authenticity. Not authenticity as a declared value, but authenticity lived...
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Mutual presence and attention, which I wrote about last time, create the soil in which desire can grow freely. And once that soil exists, the courage also arises to bring into the relationship something many people keep strictly private: fantasies...
17 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Reflection on sexual experiences as a source of self-knowledge, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a conclusion that is both simple and profound: the quality of intimate life depends less on what you do and more on how present you are in w...
16 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Conscious intimacy in long-term relationships, which I wrote about last time, requires staying curious and present. And there is a level of this curiosity that turns inward, towards your own sexual experiences as sources of self-knowledge. Not in a...
15 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Vulnerability that intensifies attraction, which I wrote about last time, is a practice, not a moment. And precisely this quality of deliberate, time-repeated practice is what makes conscious intimacy possible in long-term relationships. Today's su...
14 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Sexuality as a bridge between the inner world and the relationship, which I wrote about last time, shows us that what we do not say appears anyway. And there is one thing we avoid more than anything else in intimacy, precisely because we instinctiv...
13 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The tension between freedom and commitment, which I wrote about last time, is experienced differently by each person and resolved, or not resolved, in different spaces of the relationship. But there is one space in which this tension, like all othe...
13 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The emotions that shape desire and attraction, which I wrote about last time, show us that intimate life is profoundly influenced by what happens within. But there is a broader tension, one that extends beyond the chemistry of the moment, one that...
12 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Sexuality as a space of knowing, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimate life is far more complex than a simple physical exchange. And one of the most fascinating and least understood complexities of it is precisely the variability of...
11 Jul 2026 3 minute read 1 comment luciman
Everyday sensuality, which I wrote about last time, is the soil from which intimacy grows. But there are moments when intimacy surpasses the sensory and becomes something deeper, a space of knowing, both of the self and of the other, at a level tha...
