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#328 🔸 What you can discover about yourself if you treat sexuality as a journey, not a destination

24 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Open communication about sexual life, which I wrote about last time, opens a territory many explore superficially or not at all: sexuality as an instrument of self-development. Not sexuality as performance, not as a relational checkbox, and not as...

#327 🔸 Couples who talk about sex have a better sexual life and here is why

23 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Reconnecting with your own body, which I wrote about last time, is a personal practice. But there is a moment when this reconnection becomes genuinely valuable in a relationship: when what you discover about yourself you also tell the other person....

#326 🔸 How to return to your own body when you have lived too much in your head

23 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The interweaving of physical and emotional intimacy, which I wrote about last time, has a prior condition we systematically ignore: actually being in contact with your own body. Not as an idea, not as an intention, but as a lived daily experience....

#325 🔸 Why you can have sex and feel lonely or embrace someone and feel more than in any other moment

22 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Differences in desire, which I wrote about last time, show us that intimacy is not a simple or uniform territory. And precisely this complexity brings me to something I believe is one of the most important things to understand about the intimate li...

#324 🔸 What you do when you want different things in bed and neither of you wants to give in

21 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The fears that limit our sensual expression, which I wrote about last time, are often personal and individual. But there is an even more complex situation: when two people with different fears, different histories, and different needs try to build...

#323 🔸 What stops you from being truly free in intimacy and where the block comes from

21 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Erotic empathy, which I wrote about last time, requires being present towards the other person. But there is something that prevents us from being present not only towards the other, but also towards ourselves in intimate moments: fear. Not dramati...

#322 🔸 How well you feel what the other experiences in intimacy says everything about your empathy outside it

20 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The vital energy I wrote about last time manifests not only individually, but also in relationship, in the way you are present towards the other person. And there is a connection I find fascinating and less explored: the link between sexuality and...

#321 🔸 The secret connection between your sexual life and how creative and alive you feel in everything else

19 Jun 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Authentic sensuality, which I wrote about last time, does not remain contained within intimacy. It spills over into everything you are and everything you do. And there is a connection we systematically underestimate, one that tradition intuited and...

#320 🔸 Why the most sensual people are not necessarily the most beautiful, but the most authentic

19 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The relational dynamic shaped by sexual experiences, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimacy is far more than a private act. It is an expression of the whole person. And precisely this expression, the way someone is genuinely present...

#319 🔸 Why the way you make love says more about your relationship than any argument

18 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Pleasure as an instrument of self-knowledge, which I wrote about last time, shows us who we are individually. But there is an equally fascinating and equally unexplored dimension: how shared sexual experiences shape, over time, the dynamic of the e...