The Dating Chronicles

The Dating Chronicles

A blog series about the curious dating-world in Denmark for a female in her (very) late 40's. It will probably contain mature content, so don't go further, if you are faint of heart or easily offended. Enjoy!


Dating Chronicles #33 – The end

25 Nov 2022 8 minute read 4 comments Askov2

When I read his words in the text, several things happened in me. First of all, my heart gave way and just poured all the love out, that I have. Secondly, I felt the annoying and constant doubt be pushed aside. Finally! The Chef and I have known each...

Dating Chronicles #32 – The love shag

24 Nov 2022 5 minute read 0 comments Askov2

My friend’s 50-years birthday was coming up and with this our little weekend getaway. I was still so conflicted. I knew that I had fallen for him, and that my feelings just grew stronger for each day with the messages and when we were together. I was...

Dating Chronicles #31 – Yes, No, Maybe

23 Nov 2022 6 minute read 2 comments Askov2

I don’t think I ever had been so much in doubt of what to do. I could literally feel the tug in my heart, but I didn’t want to open up. It was no good, the age gap was way too big. We were not talking about 5 years. Or 10. We were talking about a 17-...

Dating Chronicles #30 - What is this?

22 Nov 2022 6 minute read 0 comments Askov2

From that spring day in the end of March, where I met the Chef for the first time, we had been together many times. We were childfree in the same weeks, and if it was possible, he came visit me every other week. Sometimes twice a week, if we could ma...

Dating Chronicles #29 - Pain and parsley

21 Nov 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Askov2

The Slave and I did try to get a date arranged but coordinating my limited free time and his work schedule was very difficult. We found a time slot, and then his car broke down. Suspicious as I was, I asked for photo proof, and sure enough, there was...

Dating Chronicles #28 - Slave work

20 Nov 2022 5 minute read 0 comments Askov2

As I have mentioned previously, the slaves in BDSM have ALL the power. I had been told that many times during my conversations on the sex-dating-site. I couldn’t really see that in the beginning, but with the 3 dates I have had with Cross-Eye and the...

Dating chronicles #27 – The Slave and the police

19 Nov 2022 6 minute read 3 comments Askov2

It was the strangest thing to meet up with a man, whom I hadn’t seen for more than a year, and the last time I saw him, he was cuffed half-naked to a fence. I don’t know how I find myself in these situations. Again … like I wrote in an earlier post …...

Dating Chronicles #26 – Back on the darker side

18 Nov 2022 7 minute read 5 comments Askov2

I was still on the sex-dating-site. I think I came back there just about Biker Dude, and I really DO enjoy this site, and it felt almost like coming home, so to speak. It’s kind of a community with blogs, chatrooms and events and it isn’t just a dati...

Dating Chronicles #25 - The skilled chef

15 Nov 2022 5 minute read 0 comments Askov2

Despite my disastrous attempts to scare this young man away, he apparently had as much fun on the date as I had. And he was also turned on from our kissing in the parking lot, so naturally we agreed to see each other again. It could go both ways. Eit...

Dating chronicles #24 – How to scare a young Chef.

14 Nov 2022 5 minute read 3 comments Askov2

I was very much torn about the date. On the one hand, I really wanted a new relationship with all that came along. I wanted to commit, I wanted to love again and this time I wanted a man, who was worthy of my love. No more lying, schizophrenic, chlam...