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#308 🔸 What you truly want in intimacy and why you do not allow yourself to acknowledge it

11 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Pleasure co-created from within, which I wrote about last time, requires being present and honest about what you feel. But there is an even deeper level of this honesty, one that few people reach: truly knowing what you want, not what you think you...

#307 🔸 Why pleasure is not just physical and what you lose when you treat it as though it were

10 Jun 2026 3 minute read 3 comments luciman

  Emotions that live in the body and filter the sensory experience, which I wrote about last time, bring us to a broader and more fascinating question: what is pleasure actually and where does it truly come from? Because if pleasure were purely physi...

#306 🔸 Why some days a touch sets you alight and other days it leaves you completely cold

9 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Sexual life as a barometer of inner state, which I wrote about last time, highlights something we know intuitively but rarely articulate clearly: emotions do not stay in the head. They live in the body. They express themselves through the body. And...

#305 🔸 Why your sexual life tells you the truth about your inner state more honestly than anything else

9 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Authentic intimacy, which I wrote about last time, reshapes the way you perceive yourself. But there is also the reverse of this relationship: the way you perceive yourself and your underlying emotional state reshape, in turn, your sexual life. And...

#304 🔸 What happens to your self-confidence when someone truly sees you and stays

8 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Desire and vulnerability, which I wrote about last time, require something fundamental: showing yourself. Being seen. And it is precisely in that moment, the moment in which you are truly seen and the other person stays, that something happens to s...

#303 🔸 Why desire disappears precisely when you feel safest with someone

7 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Sensuality, which I wrote about last time, is the basic condition of presence in intimacy. But there is something that precedes it and without which even presence does not reach its greatest depth: desire. Not desire as a biological reflex, but des...

#302 🔸 Why some people live more intensely than others and what they do differently

7 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Sexuality as a language of identity, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimacy is not just about what we do, but about how present we are in what we experience. And precisely this quality of presence brings me today to something that li...

#301 🔸 What your sexual life says about who you truly are

6 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Love as a continuous process, which I wrote about in article 300, requires remaining present and curious in every dimension of the relationship. And there is one dimension we treat separately, as though it were something distinct from the rest of o...

#300 🔸 Love is not something you find and keep, it is something you build every day or lose

5 Jun 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman

  Shared values, which I wrote about last time, provide the direction for a couple. But direction alone moves nothing. What sets a relationship in motion, what keeps it alive and allows it to grow rather than solidify into a fixed form, is something...

#299 🔸 Why some couples survive any storm and others fall apart at the first serious wave

5 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Mutual introspection, which I wrote about last time, brings you face to face with yourself in the relationship. But there is an even deeper level of a couple's stability, one that has nothing to do with communication skills or conflict management t...