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SelfInvest – A blog about you, written by someone like you. Tired of fluffy motivational advice? Here you’ll find no magic formulas – just honest reflections, clear ideas, and simple tools for real, lasting growth. I write from experience: the mistakes, the breakthroughs, and the shifts that truly changed me. If you're looking for more focus, sustainable habits, and inner freedom, you're in the right place. 📩 Subscribe and let’s build your best self – together.


#395 🔸 Why your past takes the place of your present without you realising and how to stop it

9 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08

  Values as a compass in crisis, which I wrote about last time, anchor us in the present. But there is something that works against this presence more persistently than anything else: the past. Not the past as memory or as lesson, but the past as an...

#394 🔸 What remains of you when everything collapses and how to build on that

8 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05

  The body as a source of information, which I wrote about last time, brings us closer to a level of self-knowledge that cannot be falsified. But there is an even deeper level, one that is not of sensation but of values, of the things we orient by wh...

#393 🔸 Why your body knows things your mind refuses to acknowledge

7 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04

  The need to always be right, which I wrote about last time, lives in the mind, in the arguments we build and defend. But there is a source of information the mind frequently ignores, precisely because it cannot be argued or controlled: the body. An...

#392 🔸 Why some people cannot lose an argument and what that costs them in relationships

7 Aug 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.04

  Stopping self-abandonment, which I wrote about last time, requires recognising your needs and expressing them. But there is a trap at the other end of the spectrum, equally common and equally costly: the need to never be the one who yields, to neve...

#391 🔸 Why you always give way and how to stop without feeling selfish

6 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

  Grief after self-illusions, which I wrote about last time, leaves something valuable in its wake: a clearer sight. And one of the clearest and most painful things this clarity produces is recognising how much energy you have invested in being who y...

#390 🔸 What happens inside you when you discover you are not who you thought you were

5 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06

  The traps of the illuminated ego, which I wrote about last time, show us that the hardest thing to abandon is not a relationship or a place, but an image of ourselves. And that is precisely today's subject: what you do when an illusion about yourse...

#389 🔸 Why people who believe they are healed are sometimes the most difficult to be in a relationship with

5 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06

  Becoming the shelter of your own fears, which I wrote about last time, is a continuous process, not a destination. And precisely this nuance, that healing and personal growth are journeys, not arrival points, is what makes a certain type of person...

#388 🔸 Why you run from your own fears instead of becoming their shelter

4 Aug 2026 3 minute read 4 comments luciman $0.02

  Authenticity in private details, which I wrote about last time, shows us that the relationship with oneself is built in small and apparently insignificant moments. But there is a dimension of the relationship with oneself that is more difficult tha...

#387 🔸 Who you truly are shows in the choices you make when nobody is watching

3 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05

  Recovering pieces of yourself from past relationships, which I wrote about last time, brings us back to the fundamental question of who we are in the absence of external influences. And there is a place where this question receives a concrete and o...

#386 🔸 why you feel incomplete after some relationships and how to recover what you left there

3 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.10

  Nocturnal dialogues with the self, which I wrote about last time, sometimes bring to the surface what is easier to avoid during the day: thoughts about past relationships, about people who are no longer in our lives, about what remained unresolved...