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23 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
Living with open questions, which I wrote about last time, requires tolerating uncertainty. But there is a specific type of uncertainty that is harder than all the others: the uncertainty that follows a major failure. The moment when something impo...
22 Aug 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.03
Slowing the rhythm, which I wrote about last time, makes possible something that speed does not allow: hearing the genuine questions that dwell in you. Not the logistical ones, not those with immediate answers, but the large and uncomfortable ones,...
21 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08
Recognising the moments when you need external help, which I wrote about last time, requires a level of awareness of your own state that everyday speed makes almost impossible. And that is precisely the paradox I want to explore today: the latent r...
21 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
Liberation from the need for absolute control, which I wrote about last time, requires something paradoxical: recognising that you cannot manage everything alone. And that is precisely today's subject, one that the culture of independence and self-...
20 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07
Inner integrity, which I wrote about last time, requires being present and coherent in the moment that is. But there is something that systematically steals this presence from us, something so well trained and so culturally accepted that we barely...
19 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
The saviour mask, which I wrote about last time, is built partly for others' eyes. And that is precisely the tension I want to explore today: the difference between who you are when you are seen and who you are when nobody is watching. Not as a mor...
18 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08
Responsibility towards your own happiness, which I wrote about last time, has an opposite face that many people experience with equal intensity: the need to be responsible for others' happiness. To repair, to save, to help even when not asked, to f...
18 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.10
Absorbed family beliefs, which I wrote about last time, profoundly shape what we believe we deserve and from whom. And one of the most frequently inherited beliefs, with direct consequences on relationships, is this: that my happiness depends on wh...
17 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
The inability to receive joy, which I wrote about last time, has roots deeper than they appear on the surface. And one of the deepest roots, probably the deepest, is the belief system we absorbed in our family of origin. Not the beliefs we delibera...
16 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07
Identity uncertainty, which I wrote about last time, is one of the forms in which we do not know how to be with ourselves. But there is another form of powerlessness towards our own person, more subtle and less often recognised: the inability to re...
