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2 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Solitude as sanctuary, which I wrote about last time, has a privileged moment in which it becomes inevitable for almost anyone: the night. When the light goes out, when the noise of the day falls silent, and when no distraction remains to function,...
1 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06
Gentleness towards oneself on days of failure, which I wrote about last time, requires being able to stay with yourself without fleeing. And this is perhaps one of the most difficult forms of presence: remaining in your own interior without filling t...
1 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Unburdening ourselves of parental expectations, which I wrote about last time, leaves a freer space inside. But in that freer space, sometimes without the externalised critical voice to guide us, we confront our own failures directly. And precisely...
31 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
Attachment to old suffering, which I wrote about last time, often has roots deeper than our adult experiences. Much of what we carry as a burden came with us from childhood, from the families in which we grew up, from the expectations, explicit or...
30 Jul 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.06
Weirdness embraced, which I wrote about last time, requires the courage to be yourself. But there is something even deeper that sometimes blocks this freedom, something we do not usually think of as an obstacle: attachment to one's own suffering. N...
30 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06
Resetting internal standards, which I wrote about last time, frees us from the pressure of conforming to an ideal version constructed from outside. And once this pressure relaxes somewhat, space appears for something we have consistently repressed,...
29 Jul 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.04
Scars carried with courage, which I wrote about last time, are part of the complete story of a person. But there is something that prevents many people from reaching this perspective, something that functions constantly in the background and produc...
28 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
The inner centre of gravity, which I wrote about last time, is built partly from what we have traversed and how we traversed it. And there is a category of experiences that contributes to this centre more than anything else, if viewed correctly: em...
28 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Personal dignity in moments of solitude, which I wrote about last time, is connected to something deeper: the capacity to remain anchored in yourself regardless of what is happening outside. And precisely this is one of the most valuable skills a p...
27 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.04
The honest gaze towards oneself, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a question few people ask directly: who are you when you are in front of nobody? When you are not performing, not adapting, not being observed? What remains? And more impo...
