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SelfInvest

SelfInvest – A blog about you, written by someone like you. Tired of fluffy motivational advice? Here you’ll find no magic formulas – just honest reflections, clear ideas, and simple tools for real, lasting growth. I write from experience: the mistakes, the breakthroughs, and the shifts that truly changed me. If you're looking for more focus, sustainable habits, and inner freedom, you're in the right place. 📩 Subscribe and let’s build your best self – together.


#375 🔸 What the mirror does not tell you and how to truly know yourself beyond what is visible

26 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07

  Comfort with your own skin, which I wrote about last time, presupposes a relationship with oneself that extends far beyond the physical surface. And yet the mirror is often the first and most frequently consulted instrument of self-evaluation. What...

#374 🔸 Why you feel uncomfortable with yourself and how to change that without pretending to be someone else

26 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06

  Thinking in shades of grey, which I wrote about last time, is also a form of accepting complexity, including your own complexity. And precisely this self-acceptance, in all its forms and imperfections, is what makes it possible to inhabit your own...

#373 🔸 Why thinking in extremes destroys your relationships and how to get out of it

25 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05

  Intuition versus fear, which I wrote about last time, requires a capacity many of us underestimate: tolerating uncertainty. Being able to sit with an I don't know, with a maybe, with a reality that is neither entirely good nor entirely bad. And pre...

#372 🔸 How to know if what you feel is a genuine signal or just fear speaking

24 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06

  Identity built around wounds, which I wrote about last time, produces a constant inner noise that makes everything else difficult to hear. And among the things hardest to hear, precisely because the noise of fear so often covers it, is the voice of...

#371 🔸 Why the story you tell about your wounds can become a prison

23 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.11

  Peace with your own inabilities, which I wrote about last time, requires looking at yourself honestly. But there is a form of honesty that can transform, without you noticing, into something far more complicated: the story you build around your wou...

#370 🔸 Why surrendering the fight with yourself is the most courageous thing you can do

23 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08

The exhaustion of the soul, which I wrote about last time, often comes from the continuous struggle with something that cannot be won: your own limits, your own inabilities, your own aspects that do not fit the ideal image you have constructed of you...

#369 🔸 Why you sleep enough and still wake up tired and what that tells you about yourself

22 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

  The distance between who you are and who you appear to be, which I wrote about last time, consumes energy in ways we do not account for and do not recognise as loss. And precisely this invisible form of exhaustion, the kind that does not appear in...

#368 🔸 How much of your life you live for yourself and how much for the image you manage for others

21 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07

  The courage to descend into one's own interior, which I wrote about last time, brings to the surface something many prefer not to name directly: the distance between who you truly are and who you try to appear to be. Not because you have bad intent...

#367 🔸 What you find when you have the courage to look at what you have avoided in yourself all your life

21 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.00

  Self-forgiveness, which I wrote about last time, opens a territory many deliberately avoid: their own deep interior, with everything that is there, including what is not pleasant, does not fit the image we hold of ourselves, or was not considered a...

#366 🔸 Why you are harder on yourself than on anyone else and what that costs you

20 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

  Integrating sexuality and sensuality into personal evolution, which I wrote about last time, requires a better relationship with oneself. And that is precisely what brings me today to a subject I consider fundamental and that is rarely discussed wi...