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27 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
Understanding love languages and the way each of us receives affection, we arrive at a reality that completes the picture: the same mechanisms that function in good times are put under maximum pressure in conflict. And it is precisely this pressure t...
26 Apr 2026 5 minute read 2 comments luciman
If attraction brings us to the door of the relationship, as we said last time, what keeps it alive once the initial enthusiasm has settled? One of the clearest and most useful explanations I have encountered comes from an apparently simple concept, b...
25 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
We have just explored how we influence each other in relationships, often without being aware of the depth of that process. But there is a moment prior to any mutual influence, the moment when two people feel drawn towards each other before a relatio...
25 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
In searching for the balance between giving and self-protection, we arrived at a reality I consider fundamental: in every relationship, influence flows in both directions, always, whether we are aware of it or not. There is no relationship in which o...
24 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
We have just explored the power of active listening in conflict and arrived at an important conclusion: truly listening is an act of courage, not weakness. But there is a deeper tension that arises not only in conflict, but in the daily texture of an...
23 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
We were talking about how to build real connections in the digital age and concluded that authentic presence makes all the difference, regardless of the medium. But there is a context in which authentic presence is tested most harshly and in which it...
23 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
We have just talked about how to read people's intentions through attention to behaviour and detail. But there is a context in which this reading becomes even harder, because the details are filtered, edited and strategically presented: the digital w...
22 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
Having just talked about how to remain yourself in a group that pressures you towards conformity, a next level appears, directly connected to relational life: how do you read the true intentions of those around you correctly? Not out of functional pa...
21 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
We were talking about what makes relationships last over time and arrived at the conclusion that one of the conditions is remaining yourself within the relationship, not dissolving into the other person. But there is a context in which this challenge...
21 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
We have just talked about superficial communication and the price we pay when we stay at the surface in relationships. Starting from there, a broader and deeper question arises: what makes a relationship last not just a year or two, but a decade, thr...
