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13 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The sense of not belonging, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a deeper question: why do we sometimes not fit even with ourselves? Why is there a distance between who we show ourselves to be and what we experience internally? The answer is...
2 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Solitude as sanctuary, which I wrote about last time, has a privileged moment in which it becomes inevitable for almost anyone: the night. When the light goes out, when the noise of the day falls silent, and when no distraction remains to function,...
29 Jul 2026 3 minute read 6 comments luciman
As you begin to better understand success stories and the real mechanisms behind them, a conclusion appears that many people try to avoid: the path towards financial freedom is not so difficult because of lack of information, but because of the diffi...
4 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
There is a strange feeling that appears as you begin to organise your financial life: you are doing the right things, yet you do not feel like you are moving forward. It is not about lack of results, but about the inability to recognise them. This id...
30 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Deep listening, which I wrote about last time, brings you closer to what the other person is experiencing. But there are moments when precisely the opposite of calm listening, namely conflict, can bring you closer to yourself, in ways that...
12 May 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman
After going through periods where progress feels slow and learning not to rely solely on motivation, a more difficult question appears: how do you know if what you are doing is actually working? It is an uncomfortable question because it does not hav...
2 May 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
Shared vulnerability, which we explored in the previous article, requires courage. But there is something that makes this courage even harder to mobilise for many people: the past. Not the past as a story you tell at dinner, but the past as a set of...
25 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
In searching for the balance between giving and self-protection, we arrived at a reality I consider fundamental: in every relationship, influence flows in both directions, always, whether we are aware of it or not. There is no relationship in which o...
19 Apr 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
In managing disappointments and unmet expectations, we talked at length about what others do to us. Now it is time to turn that gaze in the other direction, the less comfortable one: what do we do to others, through the emotions we carry and transmit...
5 Apr 2026 4 minute read 2 comments luciman
If last time we looked at how a harmful relationship appears from the outside, today I want to focus on what happens inside us, and how what we haven't resolved from the past shows up, uninvited, in every relationship we live in the present. Unresolv...
