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It's Hard, Sometimes.

18 Feb 2022 4 minute read 2 comments Olawalium $0.01

It's hard to understand humans most of the time. Of course, I am human but we all have to admit that we are complex beings and things are always complicated with us because our hearts are unknown. Humans would say a thing but in their hearts, they...

Guys, Learn Patience.

10 Feb 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium $0.02

I seriously don't understand what's with some guys and lack of patience. I sincerely wish to give some of them a "High Five" on the face for being such a disgrace to the XY Chromosomes. Can't we just learn to do things right? Oh well, maybe we can'...

You Can't Love Without Giving.

15 Jan 2022 4 minute read 2 comments Olawalium $0.02

A friend of mine shared with me this morning how a comment she made on Twitter was completely taken out of context. She was trying to say something in addition to what the first tweet said but obviously, most people pushed their projection on her, ta...

Unrealistic Expectations.

15 Jan 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium $0.01

I want to believe that we all have expectations where some things are concerned. It all starts with the little things because there are some things we would never compromise on and that's fine. There are some houses you wouldn't want to live in, so...

Please Run, III.

13 Jan 2022 2 minute read 1 comment Olawalium $0.02

I was shocked when a guy told me the lady he asked out asked him how much he would be giving her monthly. I asked him if they were having some sort of business arrangement or she is selling something or maybe he took a loan and he scheduled how muc...

Please, Run II.

12 Jan 2022 2 minute read 4 comments Olawalium $0.03

I shared the link on my WhatsApp status and a guy read it but he told me he would love to hear from the perspective of a guy too. He wants me to advise the guys also against ladies who take them for granted hahaha. Oh well... As I often say, it's n...

Please, Run.

10 Jan 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium $0.02

Relationships can be tricky and I am a practical person. In as much as I am hopelessly romantic, I can be very practical and most people understand this and that's why they sometimes ask for my opinion on things. It's good to sample opinions someti...

Dating and Academics, II.

6 Jan 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium $0.06

I mentioned the importance of knowing yourself. Some people can compartmentalize while some struggle with it. I love what someone says that it prepares us for the future when we learn how to manage the stress of education with that of a relationshi...

Dating and Academics.

5 Jan 2022 4 minute read 2 comments Olawalium $0.03

A lot of people, especially students feel a relationship isn't for them. Some even think they can't combine both but I beg to differ. Well, this approach might not be one size fits all because as individuals, we should know ourselves better to know...

What You Don't Value Slips Away.

3 Jan 2022 4 minute read 2 comments Olawalium $0.02

It's true what they say, what you don't value slips away. As humans, we would naturally go to where we are celebrated rather than where we are tolerated. If the value of a thing isn't known then abuse is inevitable. That's the way life operates and...