Dear Friends,
I m just trying draft this article to understand the reality of this world and this is a executive summary of the learnings from various events that I have personally come across in my personal and professional life.
Have you ever come across any situation like this?
In a group, there are people who are perfect in all things
There are perfect people
In another group
There are people who are not yet perfect in all things
Which of these two groups in which you willing to participate in?
If you think of yourself as a perfect person, you will probably choose the first group
No, I'm still not perfect, so I'd say the second group is better.
I always wanted to be in the second group
Even if I am asked to manage one group, I prefer to manage the second group
The reason is that
To those who always think that I am perfect in everything
Coming up with creative ideas for growth is very difficult!
They also consider themselves perfect and do not listen to the complaints of others. Even if it falls, it will not reach the brain through the auditory nerve. Even if it goes as it is, the mind will not come to take it creatively.
Such people like to have people around them who are constantly praising themselves for being perfect.
Such people are still progressing towards the state of perfection as lesser than themselves.
Consider the simple
They also make jokes.
And through their own experience. Instead of feeding the wisdom gained through the acquired knowledge, they behave with kindness.
At the same time, please do understand that no one is perfect here.
Rather than operating as a team
One's imperfection would be another's perfection
We fix it with that!
That's why groups falter. Just understand, here many groups come together to form society?
Family is also important among these group types.
Why does man live socially?
Why do interdependent families falter?
This is the main reason
Man is imperfect...Man is imperfect
Here, be the perfect parent, Be perfect life partner, Be the perfect team member- as to live to win!
It can be seen that many trainers are increasing day by day.
But, and to state the fact that no one can achieve perfection here!
Few people even realize it.
We make a habit of looking for perfection in anything and everything and lose the joy of life
Also, we wallow in guilt that I am not perfect and push ourselves into a sea of misery.
On the contrary
I'm not perfect either
You are not perfect either
Come let us both form a partnership
Don't be greedy for it to be perfect.
The sustainability of groups lies in respecting the imperfect status of others – as much as possible.
Let me conclude with an example
There are better perfect batsmen than Hardik Pandya in Indian Cricket Team.
There are better perfect bowlers than him
Better fielders than him too
But why is he?
He is a regular in the Indian team
Who is the match winner?
Has anyone thought of that?
Rather than being perfect at one thing
Only people who are imperfect in many ways can bring success to team to team.
In that respect- even if you are not the perfect parent
Although not the perfect husband and wife
Although not perfect children
Don't worry about it at all
This world is not a perfect sphere
If so it is a perfect sphere
Nor will we have changing seasons
So others are ours
Just keep in mind that
Let's learn to live with imperfection instead of scorning it!