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SelfInvest – A blog about you, written by someone like you. Tired of fluffy motivational advice? Here you’ll find no magic formulas – just honest reflections, clear ideas, and simple tools for real, lasting growth. I write from experience: the mistakes, the breakthroughs, and the shifts that truly changed me. If you're looking for more focus, sustainable habits, and inner freedom, you're in the right place. 📩 Subscribe and let’s build your best self – together.


#355 🔸 Why sometimes you desire them intensely and other times not at all, even though apparently nothing has changed

12 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02

  Sexuality as a space of knowing, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimate life is far more complex than a simple physical exchange. And one of the most fascinating and least understood complexities of it is precisely the variability of...

#354 🔸 What you did not know about yourself until you were truly intimate with someone

11 Jul 2026 3 minute read 1 comment luciman $0.09

  Everyday sensuality, which I wrote about last time, is the soil from which intimacy grows. But there are moments when intimacy surpasses the sensory and becomes something deeper, a space of knowing, both of the self and of the other, at a level tha...

#353 🔸 Why your sensual life does not happen in the bedroom but in the kitchen, on the street, and at the table

11 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02

  Respect and love expressed through physical intimacy, which I wrote about last time, do not appear from nothing. They are built from the quality of presence you bring to every moment of the day, not only to the moments declared as intimate. And tha...

#352 🔸 How to tell whether your intimacy contains genuine respect or just habit

10 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

  Introspection, which I wrote about last time, brings us closer to our own desires and needs. But there is a dimension of intimate life that is not only about what you want, but about how you treat the other in everything you build together: respect...

#351 🔸 Why you do not know what you truly want in intimacy and how to find out

9 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02

  Sensual energy, which I wrote about last time, is cultivated through presence in your own life. But presence in the inner life requires something more specific and more difficult than presence in the outer world: genuine introspection. Not anxious...

#350 🔸 Why some people attract without doing anything special and how to become one of them

9 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

  Empathy cultivated in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, makes you a more present and more attentive partner. But there is a dimension of presence that extends beyond the couple relationship and that manifests in everything you are and everyt...

#349 🔸 How to become a better partner through what you learn in intimacy

8 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02

  Intimacy as a form of deep communication, which I wrote about last time, shows us that in the intimate space more happens than physical or emotional exchanges. There is also a form of learning, about the other and about yourself. And one of the mos...

#348 🔸 What the way you make love and receive affection says about your relationship

7 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07

  Hidden desires, which I wrote about last time, acquire meaning and can be integrated only where there is a genuine channel of communication. And that is precisely what I want to explore today, intimacy not as a physical act or an isolated emotional...

#347 🔸 What to do with the desires you have never allowed yourself to say out loud

7 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07

  Sensuality as a language of affection, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimacy is built also from what is not said explicitly, from gestures, from touches, from presence. But there is a category of unspoken things that carry a differe...

#346 🔸 How the right touch says more than any word of love

6 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03

  Curiosity about the other, which I wrote about last time, opens new spaces in the relationship. But there is a language older than words and more direct than any question, one we use or neglect daily without being aware of what we are communicating...