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29 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06
Conscious presence in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, requires something I have not said explicitly until now: to be well enough with yourself to be genuinely there. To not be so preoccupied with how you look, how you are perceived, or wha...
28 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
The balance between pleasure and responsibility, which I wrote about last time, is only possible when you are genuinely present in what you are experiencing, not on autopilot and not behind a wall of self-censorship. And precisely this conscious pr...
27 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06
Fantasies and desires in intimate life, which I wrote about last time, show us that sexuality is a territory of inner freedom. But freedom, in any domain of life, has a dual face: it does not exist in the absence of responsibility. And precisely th...
27 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05
Freedom in intimacy, which I wrote about last time, is not only the freedom to be yourself in the other's presence. It is also the freedom to have a rich inner life, including fantasies, desires, images, and scenarios you have not lived and may not...
26 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01
Sensual play, which I wrote about last time, is only possible where something deeper exists: a sense of safety. Not the safety that produces passive comfort, but the safety that liberates, that allows you to be more yourself than you would be alone....
25 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.06
Vulnerability, which I wrote about last time, deepens connection and reactivates desire. But there is another face of this openness, one that is lighter, less explored, and equally important: play. Sensual play, play within intimacy, the capacity t...
25 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01
Sexuality as a path of self-development, which I wrote about last time, requires showing yourself, being curious, and remaining present even when it is uncomfortable. And precisely this showing, this deliberate exposure of something real in you, is...
24 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
Open communication about sexual life, which I wrote about last time, opens a territory many explore superficially or not at all: sexuality as an instrument of self-development. Not sexuality as performance, not as a relational checkbox, and not as...
23 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Reconnecting with your own body, which I wrote about last time, is a personal practice. But there is a moment when this reconnection becomes genuinely valuable in a relationship: when what you discover about yourself you also tell the other person....
23 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
The interweaving of physical and emotional intimacy, which I wrote about last time, has a prior condition we systematically ignore: actually being in contact with your own body. Not as an idea, not as an intention, but as a lived daily experience....
