The essence of one's virtuous strength

The essence of one's virtuous strength

By Gnx888 | Reflective Essays | 7 hours ago


The social condition in different communities gets better not by just adding more laws, or making the government do everything and calling it a day.

Instead, it improves when people start treating each other according to ethical values.

This only happens when their behavior toward each other is built upon common respect.

One of the most valuable principles behind this is humility.

It is not a mere absence of a condescending attitude, boastful speech, or disdainful looks.

Although this definition is correct, it is also surface-level.

Humility is an inner, virtuous strength.

It is rooted in possessing enough self-esteem not to over-display qualities and precious worldly items.

It also shows empathy towards others, even when they have less, while not viewing oneself as a superior human being.

This allows individuals to be aware of their flaws.

In turn, this awareness provides a clear path for evolving as a person; after all, if you believe that you are perfect in all aspects, you blind yourself with the possibility of becoming better.

Unlike other virtues, which are show through acts—like how generosity appears when you donate your money to the homeless—humility is mostly about one's internal perspective of themselves and their state.

This state is effortless to imitate externally, a practice also known as performed modesty.

This leaves the matter doubtful: if it is mostly about self-regard, how can it leave an impact on society?

Apparently, the way you treat others is a reflection of how you feel about yourself.

It reflects whether you need recognition and a social reaction to feel complete, or whether you need to downplay others to feel more superior than you actually are.

The authenticity of humility depends on the motive behind it.

It depends on whether it feels like putting on a costume to get recognized, or whether it acts as a genuine, independent quality that does not need to be noticed.

The impact remains personal until it slowly starts revealing itself in our daily interactions...even in subtle ways.

Since this principle rejects being excessively self-centered, it is inevitably shown through responses rather than presentations.

These responses include taking criticism without getting defensive and being open-minded when listening to others perspectives that challenges one's own.

However, when taken too far, this very noble virtue can quietly turn into self-erasure.

At some point, an individual should not suppress the desire to express themselves unapologetically, even when blunt, as long as they do it without cruelty or arrogance.

In the end, humility—like everything else in our world, even when technically good—should remain balanced.

Ego and pride remain the enemies of one's personal growth.


 

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