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I'll try not to make it look like an advertisement for dating services. I'm just sharing my personal experience. For people who are looking for real people without scammers, escorts, cryptoscams and other things that have flooded the Dating sphere. Moreover, this is not the topic of my blogs. Just my observations. And as briefly as possible, I will try to tell you about several dating services.

I'll tell you a little about the dating site Lalau, as well as their bot in Telegram. In my opinion, they even exist on Zen. I must say right away - this is a SCAM. These guys have a website, a Contact group, and they're on Telegram. By the way, they recently disabled comments in the Telegram group for reasons that were not enthusiastic at all. Lalau has two admins. This is a man, he is also a developer (contacts can be seen in the bio of the group) and the second admin is a girl (contacts can be seen in the bio of the bot). So, the bot doesn't work or it works extremely poorly, your profile is blocked at 100% when changing photos, you have to contact technical support, where the admin is a girl and this is a 100% prostitute who will talk to you very offensively (I have voice mail and screenshots of correspondence with her), in fact, both admins don't care on users. This applies to women's profiles. There are fewer problems with the male questionnaire, it successfully passes moderation. So this is the scheme of this fraudulent dating site: you are a man with a questionnaire on their site, you are being contacted by dating participants "verified" by this site, it turns out that the girl is an escort worker, offers you to order her through another bot, paying a certain amount online - the girl can be ordered for an hour, for the whole night and and so on. Damn, if you suddenly say that the geo indicated in your questionnaire is unreliable, and you are from another region, then in the end the escort will "agree" that the agency's managers will deliver her to your region, even though it turns out to be Kamchatka, it doesn't matter, the main thing is to pay for the order. I am sure that you have now understood the divorce scheme of this Lalau website. Well, in addition to the bot and Telegram channel I mentioned, their website and Contact groups - you can find all this yourself. If you don't want to get to know each other, just want to donate your money to fake escorts, then welcome to Lalau.
My post about Lalau in Telegram
Lalau - the spread of prostitution, fraud. The support is insulting.


Personally, I can advise you in the telegram for real dating "Soul nearby" - you can take a look simply because the questionnaires there are manually moderated and, albeit not immediately, but mandatory verification for everyone. Another man wrote to me (I lost his message, so if he's reading, then hello, man) that there is a Ton daiting, there is also a multi-stage verification. This reduces the number of fakes and scams, and I think it's very important for those who are really looking for a relationship with a real person and don't want to waste their personal time on fraudulent projects like Lalau. Premium dating service "SOUL NEARBY". Verified users only. Manual moderation of questionnaires. You communicate with real people - no bots! No fakes!
My post about "The Soul is near" in telegram

(I'm making an amendment to the post that the "Soul Nearby" Service has degraded, the support service is staffed by stupid volunteers, I can add your account to the entire blacklist - attention! - for the fact that if a dozen complaints are collected from some whiners who are offended by you because you did not give them after a couple of words of communication in Telegram, yeah yeah... although of course the developers tried and this service would be good, but try it yourself). I'll be honest, I would classify all dating sites in the Russian segment by default as fraudulent areas, something like a casino, in general somewhere in this pile... speaking about a dating site and as an important note, I mean dating with a serious relationship first of all, and not one-two meetings.
Also, for the sake of interest, I verified myself in the Bibinto dating bot. Well, there's nothing much to add here, a well-known service, though with a lot of complaints about the presence of bots there and so on, as well as a contingent of youngsters, like my age (+/-). And yes, there is also an observation that it is better not to write anything about yourself in the description column, and even more so not to offer services, mutual PR, and the like, since the account is being banned and you will have to pay a fine for restoration, about 100 rubles, I don't remember exactly how much. In general, even for a harmless description, there is a chance to get banned. Therefore, it is better to leave this field empty. This is not an advertisement for such services as Soul nearby, Tone Dating, Bibinto, Lalau (for those who want to give money to fake escorts) - all this is just a more entertaining moment, personally I didn't really find friends there, the level of intelligence of the contingent present there often leaves much to be desired. But who cares, as they say, maybe I'm a particularly picky "bitch."
My telegram post about Bibinto

I've tried other sites, like RusDaiting. Especially their telegram bot, if you register in telegram, then you don't see a bunch of messages that are being written to you, you need to at least somehow visit their website. There is a lot of rudeness and other nonsense, although this site tries to seem like a service for serious dating, but personally I would not recommend it so that you waste your personal time on this garbage. But if you want, I won't interfere. I contacted the technical support of this site, wrote that I just don't have time to sit on their site, I would just like to specify my telegram contact, from whose account I initially registered in their bot. This cannot be indicated on the website. But they promised me that I would be able to drop my account in personal correspondence to contact me. That's what I did. The next day, my account was banned.The site's support replied to me that I had violated their rules. Although they assured me a day ago that it is allowed to share your contacts in personal correspondence. It turns out that you can communicate within their site, but you may be blocked if you send your contact information in personal correspondence. I will add that the outright rudeness from some men that came to me is for some reason the same.support does not respond to abusive emails, and these characters continue to exist on the site. Integration with the telegram bot is terrible, obviously not finalized and the site does not want to develop in this direction, in fact, the bot in telegram looks like an unnecessary appendicitis - non-functional and unnecessary, all the "raspberries" are only on your site.
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