Jealousy is the feeling of showing envy to someone on their achievements and advantages. Jealousy is the feeling that belongs to our mental set up. But but, sometimes it also shows up on our physical appearance and in our spoken words, if we are keenly observed and wisely listened.

Whenever jealousy originates, we didn't do any harm to the person for which we feel but just hurt our mental health. It's a bad feeling of reflexive nature that we originate for others but disturb ourselves with it.

But why it is generated?

 I'll again say that it belongs to our mind set up and I think that selfishness, our laziness, immature thoughts, and more importantly our lack of self-confidence are the factors contributing to generate it. Actually, we don't have a don't confidence to struggle and meet our success or achievements but feel bad when others got theirs. And we usually express it by presenting negativity to them.

"You can only be jealous of someone who has something you think you ought to have yourself". Margaret Atwood

But I'll say that instead of being jealous of it one should to focus on how did the other got it? And use all his/her energy to work for it.

How we should avoid it?

So we should never let such sort of feelings and thought to our minds. We always should feel good for others. We should to better concentrate on our own work and life rather than on others' life. Believe me, we will find always a helping and beautiful incoming from the world.

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