The beginning of the year is full of purposes, plans, challenges and objectives, also challenges. Being able to fulfill some of all that can be a daunting task.
Yes, with a glass of champagne (and more) we toast a new year, and the last night is filled with a multitude of good wishes that, hours later with a hangover or listening to the New Year's Concert, become almost obligations that we we have proposed ourselves, because, basically, we want these twelve months to be better and to be happier.
So many of us demand ourselves to change some or many things, we tell ourselves that there are things that must change, that we cannot continue like this, that we must take the step, that we must start in another way... and what better time than now. The new beginning can be ours, but in many cases will and strength is also necessary.
And with the optimism of the holiday lights, we believe that yes, that this time yes, but the kilos that we have thrown on ourselves sink a little and we doubt when we weigh ourselves, or when we weigh the difficulty of our objectives, will we achieve them?
And there are the classics. Of those who speak in all the articles and reports from day one, in which they give you advice or directly iron out about achieving them: join the gym (and go a little frequently) and with it also go on a diet (and drink a little less), learn another language (really have some real level of conversation), take care of yourself better, start meditation, save more money (or stop spending on bullshit), etc. Then there are more personal or even transcendental issues such as being happier, kinder... and also finding another job or changing your whole life.
Why do we always have to ask ourselves for more? How to manage not to give up? Or how can we stop feeling afraid of what is presented to us? Be that as it may, a certain feeling of insecurity may appear, we will feel overwhelmed. It is clear, all changes can seem difficult and all difficulties can be scary, failure is what scares, although the lack of results in the end ends up being the resignation and frustrated acceptance of another year.
Well, this year the failure is going to end.
Why? Because in principle you always have to be positive and have confidence in another way, we started badly, we won't even start anymore… And why can't this be our year? Among some of the best-known motivational phrases, one that could be more appropriate is that if we want to change we cannot continue doing the same. Besides, doesn't this kind of dejavú always tire of asking the same thing every year, doing nothing and asking for the same thing again?
It is going to be difficult and just thinking about it we can get exhausted, but now we have to have the STRENGTH to fight truly. We are full of christmas sweets, hugs and beautiful celebrations, so in these moments we have now a new energy. We have to use that energy in the best way, making our plans, creating our strategies, looking for ways and means to start fulfilling wishes.
Those plans have to be realistic, for example, you don't have to get it into your head to lose a lot of pounds or find a job in a couple of weeks. Let us set deadlines, yes, but with our head and judgment, it is absurd to be frustrated because then in a few weeks we will only be disappointed, so perhaps to maintain energy, we need also a lot of illusion.
Any small achievement, every day that we do something that we wanted and had not done before, can be our big success. And day by day, we will have a better year.
If we have something to ask strongly, every year, every month, every week and every day, it is to have a lot of strength to live, enjoy, face, overcome and learn. I hope that we can all get ready to search and find what we want the most, and that is why I wish that the force be with you throughout this 2021!
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