Who is responsible for the problems of your life? Although It may seem in our mind that someone else is responsible for our misfortune or Heartbreak, playing the guilt game really doesn't work. You may feel that your poor confidence or your own picture has risen up out of living with harsh guardians, relatives or even an oppressive accomplice. It'S An extremely levelheaded idea, would it say it isn't?
Consider it for a second. Is It The fault of the others who work for you in your life right now? Does This help you to correct the pain of your bad self-esteem or your negative thoughts? In truth, your outside world is a reflection of the world in you. If you allow others to be responsible for your negative thoughts or your painful feelings, give them your power. Basically, squeeze your own power and personal growth and finally resist completely in negative feelings or thought patterns.
I'm Not saying it can't be abused. And your feelings of abuse are very justified and your feelings are what you must have. But understand that in this world, the only person you can control is yourself. To change a sustainable life, you have to change. The people around you in your life, the change in your thoughts, your actions and, above all, the change in your reactions to people or situations, put the power back into your hands. Forgive Those who have erred, and the decision to truly Love you is the only way to break with this pain.
Remember that forgiveness is not for the person who hurts you in the first place. Forgiveness is for you! It's about letting go and let these terrible feelings pass, and so completely and completely deliver You. If you do, you will no longer be seated in this pain and feel the need to blame others for it. You will take responsibility for your life and choose to live happily and freely from the past at this time. This is the way to recover your personal power and truly heal your life.
If This is a place where you fight. Decide today that you're worth it!