Many people have not turned their lives around responsibly in overwhelming situations. The experiences they carry may not move them forward. The success they want will come only from the open, messy, imperfect experiences they go through.
Consistency of Mind
No two people live through the same event to walk away with the same meaning. You can’t rely on a single decision you think will let you succeed. The mind naturally connects with past experiences; the goal is to find your own path to succeed in life.
How you act determines the goals you set. You can reinterpret your experiences to empower you.

Your progress will start forming a relevant story of experiences that work for you, instead of ones that go against you. Action works consistently when your behaviour aligns with your mental health activities.
Clarity of Experience
A painful or confusing experience can help you think more clearly about what to do. What you’re thinking about makes you pause to ask yourself what the casual wisdom of your own intention could come up with.
In Psychology
According to psychology, life mostly consists of automatic thoughts, often referred to as irrational feelings, that influence us in one way or another. We feel less spontaneous than we intend, often on a negative, pessimistic journey through life.
Automatic thoughts are mental images that pop into your head in response to an internal or external event. They can be negative, neutral, or positive.
In Philosophy
Philosophers also believe that the meaning we give our experiences will inevitably align with how we define success. We need to shift from material definitions to focus on the internal nature of our own success; we must let internal frameworks become more grounded in the status, fame, or wealth that affects us.
Philosophy views the meaning we give our experiences as an active human creation rather than a pre-written property of the universe. Because the universe does not hand us ready-made instructions, humans must consciously build significance from what happens to them.
Simply put, you must realise that many patterns form without knowing how to recognise what works and what doesn’t. Better decisions propel everyone to succeed in life.

We choose a direction to straighten more complex dreams; we interpret experiences to organise our simpler goals. Purpose builds your way of life into a consistent meaning that defines what success should be.