"And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been."
–Rainer Maria Rilke
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Be The Best You Can Be in 2023
As we turn the page on another chapter in our book of life, 2022 saw a lot of despair, destruction, and drama in our world. However, we are getting a blank page and the pen is in our hand to begin writing a new chapter for 2023. As I move from the general to the specific, the question before us today is what do we see?
Each of us have the ability to choose our response to what happens to us, but we must have a vision of where we wanna go and where we NEED to go by beginning with the end in mind. Think about it. We have the ability to create the life we desire but it will not come easy. No, in fact it will require us to form habits and DISCIPLINE to execute daily; in other words - You Betta Werk Bitch! So we must put first things first, understand what the BIG rocks are in our own lives will help.
Being an independent person requires us to master the vices, but to be an effective person we must be interdependent and that requires us to be able to work with other people. We spend the majority of our time with other people; family, friends, associates, strangers. This require skills that we must work at daily in order to be effective.
We must think WIN/WIN or No Deal instead of Win/Lose, Lose/Win, or Lose/Lose. Approaching situations in our lives where believe the best in the other person and not assume the worse. Human nature by default is normally negative. Being an optimistic person doesn't come naturally - we must work at it. One way to do that is to seek first to understand before being understood. Ask question and avoid making statements because we never really KNOW right?
Spend more time coming TOGETHER to create IDEAS that is better than what we can do on our own; be synergistic. Listening to the media we spend a lot of time talking about people.
"Great minds discuss ideas.
Average minds discuss events.
Small minds discuss people."
- Eleanor Roosevelt.
Let's change that in 2023. Plan, strategize, optimize, your life so you can be the best you, you can be in 2023. But listen, this is not easy stuff to do, but we must take time to sharpen the saw so that we can get back to it. We can AND will fall short of this and that is okay. It's okay not to be okay. My hope is that in times like that, you have a community of folks around you who love you enough to support you in those times.
I believe 2023 will be the year of recovery but only if we all work together to make it better. I believe I have the ability to address any issues that come my way, I can handle it and my hope is that you believe you can handle it; I'll be fine. If you need help being the best you can be in 2023, contact me via Telegram, LinkedIn, or Wubits and let's work together to help you achieve the things you desire to get accomplished in 2023!
