Single colleagues can't give a married person normal advice. I once complained to an unmarried colleague: "You know, I have some kind of misunderstanding with my wife. We live in different cities now. She always thinks I'm guilty of something." And he gave me what he thought was brilliant advice. He looked at me and said, " A... Tell her-Fuck you ass." But you can't even tell your wife that! If I tell my wife this, I'll be there myself . Have you seen these men who grow beards, walk in rags, learn the world, sleep on a rock, drink from the rain? These are the sages. These are the people who once said to their wife, "Fuck you ass."