Why do husband and wife get divorced? The primary reasons usually lie in two main problems, plus one additional issue.
First: Never, ever discuss your internal family problems with a third party. Never. If it really comes to that, do so only with the consent of both partners. If either the husband or the wife shares family issues with a third person without the other's consent, that is already a red flag for a major problem.
Second: The rivalry of 'who is the master of the house?' Everything in the world created in pairs—for example, kidneys, nuts, the brain, hands—always has one slightly shorter or smaller than the other, even if only by a millimeter. Husband and wife are also a pair. Do not be proud; show humility when necessary, and become, at least for a moment, the 'shorter' one for your husband or wife.
Additionally: Men love with their eyes, and women love with their ears. Dressing nicely and speaking kindly are things that should never be stopped, even after marriage.
Good luck to you in building a family.