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18 May 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.07
Maintaining your identity in a relationship, which I wrote about last time, requires energy. And that is precisely where something few couples truly examine comes in: how much emotional energy you bring into the relationship and what happen...
17 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08
Unexpressed needs, which I wrote about last time, often share a common root: at some point, you stopped asking yourself what you want, preoccupied with what the other person wants, expects, feels, needs. It is such a gradual process that you barely...
16 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.08
Last time we talked about the courage it takes to say what you want in your intimate life. But there is an even deeper level to that conversation, one that precedes any verbal expression: what happens with the needs you do not even know cle...
15 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01
Genuine forgiveness, which I wrote about last time, reopens a space of safety between two people. And it is precisely in that space of safety that something many partners avoid for years becomes possible: speaking openly about what you want in your...
14 May 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman $0.04
Negative emotions, which I wrote about last time, leave marks. Sometimes they leave wounds. And wounds in a relationship do not disappear on their own. They need something specific to close: real forgiveness, not the performative kind. And that is...
14 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
The balance between independence and closeness, which I wrote about last time, requires something few people practise consciously: the capacity to sit with their own emotions without immediately throwing them at the other person or burying them ent...
13 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
Personality differences, which we talked about last time, inevitably raise a broader question: how do you remain yourself within a relationship, without losing yourself in the other person and without drifting so far apart that you become two stran...
12 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05
Jealousy, which we talked about last time, often has a deeper fuel than it appears: the feeling that you are not enough compared to who the other person is or who they might become without you. And that brings me to something equally challenging: t...
12 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Shared passions keep a couple connected, I said last time, but there is a feeling that can sabotage any form of connection, regardless of how solid the ground built together is: jealousy. Not because it is a monster in itself, but because, misunder...
11 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01
The daily rituals we talked about last time keep a relationship anchored in the present. But there is another level of connection, less about the small moments and more about shared direction: what do you do together that nourishes both of you, not...
