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#74 🔸 Unspoken emotions and their echo in relationships

4 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

Sometimes I realise that the most tense moments between people don’t come from what is said, but from what is avoided. After reflecting on the labyrinth of memory and the way our past shapes our present, I noticed that many heavy memories are tied to...

#73 🔸 The labyrinth of memory: which memories we choose to keep

4 Jan 2026 2 minute read 3 comments luciman

Sometimes, in moments of stillness, I realise how strangely our memory works. After reflecting recently on impulsivity and how spontaneous reactions reveal our true selves, a thought experiment came to mind: if impulse is the voice of immediate emoti...

#72 🔸 Why impulsive decisions define us more than we think

3 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

There are moments in life when reason goes silent and instinct speaks — sometimes softly, sometimes with overwhelming force. After exploring critical thinking and the traps of mental illusions, it’s time to look at the other side of the coin: what ha...

#70 🔸 How perception shapes our everyday reality

2 Jan 2026 2 minute read 2 comments luciman

After reflecting on the power of vulnerability and how authenticity connects us to others, it feels right to explore a deeper dimension of the inner world: perception — the silent architect of our reality. Because what we experience every day is not...

#69 🔸 The power of vulnerability in a world that pretends to be invulnerable

2 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

After exploring the dark, transformative side of anger in the previous reflection, it feels natural to move into its counterpart — vulnerability. If anger shows where we’ve been hurt, vulnerability shows where we are still alive. We live in a world t...

#68 🔸 The darkness of anger: when emotions become instruments of power

1 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

Sometimes, light doesn’t emerge from calm — it rises from chaos. The previous reflection opened a door to vulnerability and the courage of showing ourselves as we are — today we walk further into a darker but equally meaningful realm: anger. Anger is...

#56 🔸 Mental flexibility as a superpower

18 Dec 2025 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

Sometimes life doesn’t teach us through sudden change, but through moments that force us to look at the same thing from a different angle. After reflecting on monitoring progress without self-criticism, it’s time to go deeper: how can we adapt more e...

Well-Behaved Monsters: chapter 45

17 Dec 2025 12 minute read 0 comments jasonmcgathey

Our antics have us feeling bulletproof. With only the landline that we have a policy of never answering, forcing someone to leave a message — or else call and call and call and then leave a message. On our old school machine with the volume...

Well-Behaved Monsters: chapter 44

17 Dec 2025 14 minute read 0 comments jasonmcgathey

Our promising stay here at the ever unpredictable Triads is cut short, however, before we’ve even really begun, this despite a capacity clientele, plenty of attractive options roaming the room, and even the joke slinging talents of Jeff beh...

#54 🔸 The action plan as a map toward your goals

16 Dec 2025 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

Sometimes, after you’ve clarified what you truly want from yourself and your life, a strange silence appears. It’s that moment when you know what you want but no longer know how to get there. If the previous reflection helped you look more closely at...