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#417 🔸 Why you try to please everyone and what you definitely lose if you continue

24 Aug 2026 3 minute read 1 comment luciman

Clearing the mental space of the day's residues, which I wrote about last time, frees capacity for what matters. But there is a source of mental residues more persistent than all others and which consumes energy in invisible ways: the obsess...

#417 🔸 Why you try to please everyone and what you definitely lose if you continue

#391 🔸 Why you always give way and how to stop without feeling selfish

6 Aug 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

Grief after self-illusions, which I wrote about last time, leaves something valuable in its wake: a clearer sight. And one of the clearest and most painful things this clarity produces is recognising how much energy you have invested in being who y...