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#190 ๐Ÿ”ธ The subtle effect of judgement on close relationships

22 Mar 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

After exploring how vulnerability builds bridges between people, it feels necessary to look at what can quietly weaken them. One of the most discreet yet damaging forces is judgement. Not the obvious, harsh criticism, but the almost automatic evaluat...

#168 ๐Ÿ”ธ Discovering value in moments of trial and stagnation

7 Mar 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

After learning to accept that internal paradoxes can coexist without forced resolution, another stage often follows, one that is harder to tolerate: facing periods where nothing seems to move. Stagnation, blockage, or prolonged challenge ar...

#148 ๐Ÿ”ธ Embracing change as an opportunity for growth

21 Feb 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

After learning to build a healthier inner dialogue, another uncomfortable truth becomes visible: much of our tension does not come from change itself, but from the way we relate to it. When the inner voice becomes clearer and more balanced, resistanc...

#146 ๐Ÿ”ธ Accepting the past without allowing it to dictate your present

20 Feb 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

As inner calm starts to become a reference point in decision-making, a more delicate confrontation inevitably appears: the relationship with your own past. No matter how present we try to be, the past makes itself felt in subtle ways, through automat...

#106 ๐Ÿ”ธ Fear and courage: two poles of the human psyche

24 Jan 2026 2 minute read 2 comments luciman

After exploring the unseen motives beneath our actions, it becomes difficult not to notice two forces constantly shaping our inner world: fear and courage. They are not opposites in the usual sense, but deeply connected. One cannot exist without the...

#100 ๐Ÿ”ธ The journey to self-knowledge through introspection

20 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

After exploring how impulses can take over our behaviour, the natural next step is to look inward, to the place where our most honest reactions are formed. If impulses are echoes of something deep, introspection is the light we take with us when we d...

#97 ๐Ÿ”ธ How traumatic experiences shape personality

19 Jan 2026 2 minute read 4 comments luciman

After exploring the subtle role of emotions in a relationship, I realised how much of what we live there has deeper roots, often in events that marked us long before we had the capacity to understand their impact. Each person carries emotional imprin...

#89 ๐Ÿ”ธ Understanding sadness and the art of accepting it

14 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

Sometimes, when you review what you wrote the day before, you realise that certain themes remain open. That happened to me now as well, noticing that the discussion about emotional vulnerability naturally leads to another question: what do we do with...

#74 ๐Ÿ”ธ Unspoken emotions and their echo in relationships

4 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman

Sometimes I realise that the most tense moments between people donโ€™t come from what is said, but from what is avoided. After reflecting on the labyrinth of memory and the way our past shapes our present, I noticed that many heavy memories are tied to...

#73 ๐Ÿ”ธ The labyrinth of memory: which memories we choose to keep

4 Jan 2026 2 minute read 3 comments luciman

Sometimes, in moments of stillness, I realise how strangely our memory works. After reflecting recently on impulsivity and how spontaneous reactions reveal our true selves, a thought experiment came to mind: if impulse is the voice of immediate emoti...