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27 Sep 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
Building on the idea that criticism often hides unmet needs, we naturally arrive at a deeper question: what happens when those needs remain unspoken for so long that two people begin to feel like strangers to one another? This is how one of the most...
26 Sep 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03
After exploring how periods of stagnation can gradually weaken emotional closeness, it is worth turning our attention to another subject that creates tension even in relationships that seem strong. We often talk about love, communication and compatib...
24 Sep 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
If a romantic relationship can help us discover ourselves, another challenge naturally follows: how do we keep alive the desire to discover our partner as well? Many people believe that after years together, there are no more surprises and nothing me...
20 Sep 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.13
As a relationship grows deeper, it is not only the present that matters but also the way each partner relates to the past. Among all the challenges that can arise between two people, one of the hardest to understand is jealousy about things that happ...
4 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
Love languages, which I wrote about last time, invite you to look more carefully at the other person. But there is an even deeper level of this looking, one that turns back inward: what do you know about yourself in the relationship, how do you con...
30 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07
Deep listening, which I wrote about last time, brings you closer to what the other person is experiencing. But there are moments when precisely the opposite of calm listening, namely conflict, can bring you closer to yourself, in ways that...
24 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.07
Becoming fluent in your partner's emotional language, which I wrote about last time, is a process that unfolds over time, with small steps, with returns, and with moments when you realise you have understood something that previously escaped you en...
14 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.02
The balance between independence and closeness, which I wrote about last time, requires something few people practise consciously: the capacity to sit with their own emotions without immediately throwing them at the other person or burying them ent...
12 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05
Jealousy, which we talked about last time, often has a deeper fuel than it appears: the feeling that you are not enough compared to who the other person is or who they might become without you. And that brings me to something equally challenging: t...
27 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.11
Understanding love languages and the way each of us receives affection, we arrive at a reality that completes the picture: the same mechanisms that function in good times are put under maximum pressure in conflict. And it is precisely this pressure t...
