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#300 🔸 Love is not something you find and keep, it is something you build every day or lose

5 Jun 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman

Shared values, which I wrote about last time, provide the direction for a couple. But direction alone moves nothing. What sets a relationship in motion, what keeps it alive and allows it to grow rather than solidify into a fixed form, is something...

#300 🔸 Love is not something you find and keep, it is something you build every day or lose

#281 🔸 Why couples who are doing well forget to notice that they are doing well

24 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

Becoming fluent in your partner's emotional language, which I wrote about last time, is a process that unfolds over time, with small steps, with returns, and with moments when you realise you have understood something that previously escaped you en...

#281 🔸 Why couples who are doing well forget to notice that they are doing well

#262 🔸 Why boring couples are actually the smartest ones

10 May 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman

Last time we talked about how genuine support means letting the other person remain whole, having their own space and their own rhythm. And yet, once each of you has that space, another question arises: how do you stay connected in everyday...