How to find "The One"

By SPjiN (Sean) | Sean Nealon | 9 Jul 2021


If you are looking for the "secrets" to finding your perfect partner - after many years of searching myself, I have three things that aren't really secrets but are very powerful in this quest:

1) Don't search for the perfect partner - try to BE the perfect partner. (Figure out what you truly want in your life and BE that. Then, when you feel completely comfortable in your self, go to the next step and think of what your ideal partner would want in their partner, and acting from a place of love and while cherishing who you are as a person, try to BE that person, while also being true to your self. (This final part of this step can be very difficult, indeed it can take a whole lifetime to learn to to it properly.)

2) Be seen. Try to join groups, clubs, sports to "get out there" to be seen by potential partners.

3) Be picky. Don't settle for the first person to chooses you back, or even maybe someone who meets most of your needs - if you shoot for the stars and aim for the best you could possibly ask for, you are more likely to cherish that person and work as hard as possible to make this thing work - you may find people saying that "she's out of your league" etc. this is garbage. If you truly want something or someone and you work and believe as hard as you can to achieve it, you can. (As crazy as it might at first sound, it's easier to get the best out of life than just enough, because we will try harder for our dream than for just the everyday - but you have to keep the dream alive. Visualise, meditate and manifest what you truly desire.)

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Sean Nealon
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