A toxic relationship is part of a dynamic of mistreatment towards the partner, and in some relationships rancor and frustration appear without deliberately reaching the harm of the other person. These relationships tend to worsen over time due to the attitude of one of the people who make up the couple. The worst thing is that in the end, there is always someone in the relationship who ends up suffering from not detecting the problem in time.
We will talk about four aspects or types of toxic relationships and how they should be managed.
Relationships based on Blackmail ..
When a person feels sorry for his partner and grants him privileged and favorable treatment, this helps the other person learn to "be a victim". The victim constantly relinquishes control of decisions, to control and manipulate his partner.
We must not under any circumstances allow decisions in a couple to be made by one person, it is necessary to talk to our partner in order to maintain a good communication and a better relationship.
Relationships Based on lies.
There are people who lie to their partners believing that lying will avoid an inconvenience or suffering. But there is nothing more harmful for a couple than feeling that the person they love is lying to them because it damages the relationship of trust, and can reach a breaking point in the relationship.
As strong as a truth can be, the best thing is for our partner to feel that we are completely transparent, in this way, however painful it may be, they will feel the support and trust necessary for a relationship based on truth.
Fear-based relationships.
There are cases where couples stay together either out of fear of the other person or internal fears of not being able to find a true relationship. The worst case is when the couple fears for any harm they may receive, however we must have the courage to face our fears and move on. Only the brave will see the victory up close.
Idealized relationships.
We cannot think that the people we love are exactly what we expect as if it were a story. If the degree of idealization is very high, we can turn our relationship into something toxic. Let us accept the person we love as he is and not for what we expect him to be, in the same way that he accepts us with all our defects.
conclusion
Let us not allow our relationship to become toxic, we must maintain communication, respect, tolerance, base ourselves on the truth, not allow blackmail and accept that person we love as he is. When we reach a point that the other person does not want to correct relationship problems and maintains a toxic relationship, we must have the courage to face the possibility that perhaps it is better to leave this relationship. But before we must consult God all our steps so that he is directing each one of them and that he gives himself the best for all of us.
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