What ideas are sprouting in your mind?
Hello, let me ask you something.
How much time do you spend asking yourself questions about your life? Questions such as:
-Why do I have certain results in my life?
-What can I change to reach the results I want?
-Do I do what I love?
-What do I love to do?
-Do I invest time in what I love to do?
No one sees what they are not looking for. Cristian Onețiu said in an interview that life is like a search engine, you will receive exactly what you are looking for. Specifically, what you convey when communicating with yourself. What do you think is the difference between a successful person and one who isn't successful yet? You'll find the answer in the clarity and quality of the inner dialogue, because a successful person sees hardship as a challenge, work as an opportunity for growth; that's what he or she is telling himself/herself. These perspectives make all the difference.
When you know what you want, you can ask for what you want - by choice, you invest your attention in that direction, you get excited and you tell your mind exactly what you want. When you start talking to yourself and see the potential instead of other beliefs, which no longer motivate you to evolve, your mind gives you the confidence that you can get there, through daily actions and perseverance.
How do you know that you have chosen what you want and not what others want? How certain are you that you know yourself and don't live the lives of those around you? To find the answer to these questions, you need to start spending time with yourself. Find out what your patterns are, how wisely you manage your time every day considering your objectives, how you talk to yourself about what you do and how you answer to opportunities. You are the person in the driver's seat, and you decide the direction of your life. You being the cause, the change starts with you.
Carefully analyze the thoughts that lead you to your daily actions. When you notice all your thoughts every day, you will easily identify the thoughts that help you grow and, of course, those that do not help you. Gradually, you begin to see everything you have absorbed without discerning, all the information from the moment you were born until now, thoughts to which you have given your attention and, over time, have become your reality through each decision.
Have you ever experienced wondering if you are your thoughts? Where do they come from and what exactly do they generate? Why does it seem that these thoughts are not you, however you listen to them like a reception station, like on the radio, just like Tesla once said? You want to start responding to life in such a way that you can raise the bar, stop being satisfied with "just good" and wish for "greatness," want change for something you can't imagine is possible yet? I invite you into the unknown, where you will discover who you were told to be and who you thought you were, and then, most likely, you will choose to be who you really are.
Remember that you are the attention that looks at life as if you're watching a movie. Constantly observe the inner dialogue, discover where growth and sabotage take place. Nowadays, you need to dedicate attention to yourself to be able to change into who you were born to be. To make the familiar unfamiliar, choose to know yourself instead of living the lives of those around you.
Every day you have the opportunity to choose. Human experience gives you this possibility, so discover your true potential. Free yourself from what no longer helps you grow, remove all the weeds that no longer serve you and plant in your mind only what brings you the opportunity to evolve, and then transform your reality with precision. Only then, the harvest from your mental garden will be successful.
The secret of your future is hidden in your daily routine, in what you focus on - where you focus your attention and, implicitly, your energy, you give life there. What you choose to do today becomes the ingredient of the next stage in your life. Knowing this, what do you choose to do differently today? Discover how you can change your behaviour to support yourself, to appreciate who you are, to accept and praise your abilities, to be aware of them in the wisest way, gently. Towards your development, start today on a new path, one in which you rise through gratitude for everything.
You know very well that you can decide to stop criticizing yourself, you can choose how to talk to yourself and how to enrich your life because you are the creator of your every day. Your mind perceives any choice in two directions - either you want and love to do something, or you hate doing that and you don't want it. When you have only these two branches to choose from, what will you decide to do next? Choose to grow and you will enjoy the responsibility and patiently climb any mountain in your path.
The kinder, more encouragingly and respectfully you address yourself, the better. Start today and get acquainted with what you want to achieve, do it through repetition, feel the enthusiasm because the mind believes what you tell it, it takes everything as a command, so just tell it great things.
Sincerely, until next time,
We are brave, we are persevering, we are responsible.
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I am Emanuel Sorin Vass and I am a Self-Development Conunselor.
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