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Last Notes:

Always go for an understanding partner and be understanding too. It doesn't mean you have to accept just anything thrown at you, but you have to understand the person enough to allow then explain and you can always guide them when you feel they are wrong. That person must have a teachable spirit too, not someone that would feel they have to be right all the time. You need an accountable partner. Someone who listens and wants to learn as well.

We all have flaws but go with someone whose flaws you can bear in the long run. Whatever you know you don't want in your future, don't settle for it now. Seek to address issues and overlook sometimes too but there are some issues you must never overlook...especially the ones that threaten your life and put your future at risk.

Love is never enough that is what most people don't understand. Love is important but you need to find something that connects you together. There would be time you don't want to even talk to each other and these times calls for care as it can bring a crack and allow you both to drift apart. 

I heard the story of a couple that felt they were not connecting as much as they want to but still, they love each other. They decided to start a project together and this project allows them to be talking almost all the time as they were planning and working towards it which is why I stressed the 'shared values'. 

"Can two walk together except they agree?"

Relationship requires commitment and you get the best out of it when you put in more effort and it has to be mutual.

The End.

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