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Heal First.

By Olawalium | Olawalium | 22 Jan 2021


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You have been broken many times

And you have been judged too often too

You tried to give your all but it isn't working

You felt certain things are just not for you

The issue isn't with what you are doing

It is with what you are not doing instead

You are doing too much, just heal first

Allow yourself to heal from past hurt

It's okay to show your vulnerable state

It's okay to cry and it's not a weakness either

Never try to prove your strength to anyone

One minute they are with you and next, they wither

Life doesn't come with manuals either

We live and learn as we grow and go in life

Before you give your heart to anyone

Before you get to make another major decision

Before you allow yourself to be out there again

Be very sure you have healed first

It is important as it determines the quality of you out there

Heal from that heartache before dating again

Don't confuse your need for comfort for love

Because you will hurt in the process

Just as you will hurt the other person too

Love from a place of love that you have for yourself

You don't need anyone to complete you

You have to be complete before you complement another

You are not broken you just need to heal first

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Thank you for your time.

My pen doesn't bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.

Still me,

My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.

Olawalium; (Love's chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor's order.

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