<<Wanting is power>> The greatest paralyzing and catalyst of the human being is called FEAR, unfortunately there are many people who still do not learn to manage it, do not learn to turn it off, to bravely flip the switch, we create limitations where there are none, the only ones that exist are mental and obviously they are hanging around in our minds and heads, destroying us little by little even, in these processes is where the need for change is born, of wanting something totally different, it should be clarified that although there is no established magic formula that leads us to achieve success , when we are truly decided on something, we will inevitably change habits that prevent us from advancing among them, the bad habit of creating problems where there are none, we will replace it by looking for solutions. It is not just about speaking and uttering words, the true meaning of change, the true firmness and strength that identifies us all, we will reaffirm it when we begin to act and act accordingly in other forms and ways, when we seek unique results to obtain them the only formula secret, magical, ancient and universal that we will find will be to do things differently, try alternate paths, many may lead us to dead ends but others will lead us to travel through meadows that had not even crossed our minds for a second, that at the same time it will make us know people, places and it will also make us taste success, the only way to obtain it is to throw ourselves fully, it is even not having an exact plan to follow but even starting with fear doing only a minimum thing different will give us different results that will be our greatest engine to continue, not to stop, we will acquire our gasoline in the process. The sooner we understand that if we do not fight, we do not strive for what we are passionate about and therefore ignite our soul, no one else will do it for us, I was listening to a podcast that led me to reflect with a phrase that invited introspection, a phrase very popular that many may have heard, which explains that if we want something to turn out as we dream it is better to do it on our own, as well as we must be clear that if we do not get down to work to build even granite granite our dreams no matter how slow we go, no one else will do it for us and even in the future we could end up working on other people's dreams, things do not fall from the sky, behind a success and an objective there is struggle, sacrifice, crying and joy, emotions, feelings that many days they will be at the summit, at the top of the mountain but others instead will be on the ground or will fluctuate to the middle, that this happens no d It must be a trigger to abandon or throw in the towel, on the contrary, in hard times we must remember that we are human beings, that we all feel and suffer, that pain and joy only make us more human. <<Many times it is not about having time, it is about taking it away from removing it or, failing that, manufacturing it>> There will be such negative days that the famous impostor syndrome will come to the fore, which has played tricks or tricks on all of us at some point, it is a totally impertinent voice like ours that should be clarified, it is not our true essence that speaks to us and tells us that we are not worthy, that we are a fraud, that everything we have and have achieved has fallen from the sky that we are practically impostors, a syndrome designed to annoy us, but on the other hand also to make us strong, so as not to let ourselves be overcome by adversity, to show the world that in our lives there is no room for weaknesses, that we can handle everything and we can forever suppress behaviors, habits and above all excuses that limit us, that lead us down the path of laziness, of discouragement that are the key to disable ourselves, therefore we must say no to these, we must be disciplined and focused beings.

Do not close yourself to the opportunities and the new paths that life offers you, not because things did not go as planned, it does not mean that you must give up or that you will not find success, life will give us thousands of tests, tests that will even make us cry. of how strong they will be but it will show us the beautiful and positive side of things, it will make us see perspectives that improve our aspirations, we must remember and accept that the train does not pass only once in a lifetime, there are many trains and many destinations, you you decide which is the ideal for you and at what time, do not be afraid, your instinct will surprise you, your body will speak to you and specify the correct moments and times, we should not rush because time is perfect and everything good takes time , but the only thing we should say a resounding NO to is the excuses that distance us, that change our perspective and perspective of the possibilities that life has for us.

Are your excuses bigger than your dreams?! Thank you for reading!

written by me and originally published in https://article.coinpayu.com/@milaagrrz/be-stronger-than-your-excuses-921KVTN6