Inventing Anna
This show can teach us allot.
So how the hell did i ended up bringing this show.
Well my girlfriend said come over let's watch this show . She is obsessed with netflix and will bring shows
Constantly. I haven't watch tv in a long time.
Two episodes in i was like , is this similar to
Tinder swindler ,we watching someone who scam people get their
(Come up-ins). Is the show telling is how evil she is etc and all the people she hurt.
I finished the show and then i remember
A really good phrase.the show reminded me that all elites know each other and to get in you need a sponsor.
You watch Anna use a fake royalty story to get in bed with people
why? Because that's the fastest way to get rich I'd you have no skills.
a quote i heard from Codie sanchez was
". Your net worth is your network" or similar quote is
You are sum of the people you are surrounded with .
i realize the fastest way to wealth if you have no skills or rich backer's is to know the right people. You watch the show and you look at her charm her way into powerful people circle. Now i don't agree with all the tactics she used but .
Some that's stuck out to me were.
- She dress the part. She always looked elegant if is she didn't have any money.i heard this before "dress for the job you want not for the one you have ".
- She was never sucking up to these people with flattery either. Most people would be like Rachel and flatter powerful people and they could smell the fakeness. It feels gross. Anna never flattered people to much.in fact she would insult them and their. Taste and they would pay attention.she was not hiding her opinion.
- She was attentive she said she had a photographic memory.each person she manage to sweet talk to her side she knew exactly what they wanted to hear or what person they wanted around. Don't go into the negotiation without knowing what the other party desperately desires.Vivian Wrote" Anna look at this city and realized if you distract people with the shiny object , they will be unable to see anything else". everyone of these people she swindle , was never completely innocent. Whether it was sex, connection, chance to make boat load of money, they all got fooled because they were looking at the shiny object.
Also like holy shit she walked on a plane and people didn't bat an eye, she acted like she belong, she believed her own bullshit story bordering on delusion. I thought she was crazy at some points .
What did i learn from this show.
I you look around most of us has no connection with smart , powerful people. I don't know anyone. Your net worth is your network. Is not about who you know its about what they know and who they know