In every single place there is always going to be that one person who is obsessed (for lack of  a better term) about what people think about them. Nobody really knows why. Maybe they’re seeking validation or maybe….(trying to compensate for something) . But what ends up happening at the end of the day is that they realize that nobody gives a damn about them.

This is the truth that you gotta accept in your life. When I say people don't give a crap about you I mean it in two ways.

First to the people pleasers.

I’ve never understood what the hell goes on in the mind of a people pleaser. What do you stand to gain when you bend backwards to make everyone happy? Would they do the same for you?

People pleasers usually end up one way. Exhausted and depressed. They’re usually the nice guys. Always trying to prove that there’s good in everyone. Ha! Good luck with that. Don’t get me wrong, there are lots of genuinely good people who deserve express tickets to heaven, but………( how many more are ungrateful scum? )

Well……. There's one thing you have to drill in your skull. The world is not rainbows and roses. This is a more civilized version of the jungle. Only the strongest can survive. No way out. So don’t try to please everyone. Anyone for that matter. Live for you and you only. Don’t be selfish but prioritize yourself.

To every other person

Now that we’re already on the topic of prioritizing one’s self, lets talk about a whole new category of evil. Users or manipulators.  I don’t know exactly which name to give to people who are present when they want something from you.

This are some of the most mentally oppressing type of humans. They don’t care about what you want, only what they need. This is why I'm saying that you should prioritize YOU. Most of what these people want are usually 100% their benefit. What about you?

In the eyes of God, everyone is equal but in the eyes of people, well….its a whole different story. If you’ve read my article on the harshest truth of life, then you know what I'm talking about.

There are people who are up there. Truth be told here. The rich, the wealthy, the mighty. What about the people who cant afford that “daily bread”? Everyone is looking out for themselves. No offence but Don’t feel so important. (even though you are)

When you walk on the street and feel as if everyone is looking at you, judging you……they’re not. Even if they are, its 1..2..3 seconds and its all over. So what should you do after knowing all this?

Just focus on yourself. Simple and straightforward. Even if the world explodes and life collapses, there's only one human being, one person that will never leave you. And that’s YOU. You are your greatest investment.

~Herovate