Dear Readers,
To have a healthy life, we need to be surrounded with many friends, relationship circles with a positive frame of mind and to help each other.
Let's all need to have a personal, social and emotional bonding with each other with our surrounding.
Which needs to be get stronger.
Bonding with each others needs to be there at all times.
We will maintain the bonds that we are all having? How to save Relationships?
Bonds starts with our birth.
As the bonds we add later in life, Our life is bound by bonds!
It is practically impossible for a man to live on his own.
A man would never think of living on his own unless stranded in the wild on some island by accident somewhere.
As we all know man is a social animal.
Man cannot live normally without attachment to society.
And man should always have an emotional connection.
Every mind craves for this EMOTIONAL CONNECT.
So are we all. "Emotional idiots" are. We have an emotional state. Even if we say we find happiness in solitude
Our mind hates true loneliness. Man is an animal that longs for love. Our minds are made to want to be pampered by another mind.
In this way, whoever connects with us emotionally and comforts our mind becomes our bond.
What are the reasons for cracks between bonds in this situation?
IMPRACTICAL EXPECTATIONS
Generally there should be minimum expectations between two people in a relationship. But when that expectation is overblown. The bond begins to strain
ONE SIDED EFFORTS TO SUSTAIN RELATIONSHIP
Only one person is trying to maintain the bond and the other is not making any effort.
TAKEN FOR GRANTED APPROACH
Not giving due importance to bonds can create disadvantage as they are easily obtained without making great sacrifices.
ALWAYS FINDING FAULT WITH THE OTHER ONE
The bond grows and wears off with mutual benefits and drawbacks. Only one side finds fault in this and talk to each other about it without coming to an end
BLAME IT ONLY
- Long absence
NO COMMUNICATION FOR LONG TIME
Longer contact between bonds reduces adhesion.
To bond with man
Attachment by mind, body and spirit is essential.
By sight, by voice, by touch
Touch, caring words, inner pleasure, love, etc. build bonds.
EGO / ATTITUDE
The idea that it is, destroys the unity of we.
Only a little surrender of self in bond can bring pleasure. Approaching a bond with arrogance is an act of suffering.
Trying to give up
STUBBORNESS TO GIVING UP
In order to maintain the bond, we have to give up our ideologies in some contradictions and protect the bond. Avoid giving up the bond for anything. The idea that a pet rabbit has three legs is not helpful for bonds.
The one who gave up. does not spoil. There is nothing wrong with giving up for the bonds we have.
Many more..for spoken words..They live apart from bonds.
In armed conflict, the body is destroyed.
The mind is destroyed in the war of words.
It is natural. Burns are present. Do not heal the scar of the tongue
Bonds? Words that come out in an angry argument? If I would say bonds, I want you to be quiet for a moment and think.
For a few words. For many years- Why are there stories among us that break bonds from generation to generation?
But still, When a man laughs.His tongue, brain and mind are not in his possession
So it is natural for him to speak inappropriate words.
We have to change this through training. However the weight given to such words
Why don't we pay for bonds? Who doesn't get angry? Who is not overstepping the bounds here?
We are all through forgiveness!
We are living together!
We think we deserve forgiveness
Shouldn't we develop a forgiving nature?
I repeat and reinstating
Man is a socialized animal that longs for love.
of bonds received- Feeling awesome- Expecting less-Instead of blaming
Even if it is a crime, forgive it, reduce arrogance, love more- without any gap
By giving value to the bond, Give up too much
Let's exchange love and live
Every cell and neuron of ours craves love…
Is it not because of love?
Thank you!
Happy bonding and in happy relationships!
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