Dear Friends,
Science says that life is for those who seize their future before it even arrives!
Science says that your brain always speaks in two voices:
One: “I believe I will achieve my goal”
The other: “I have achieved my goal”
One of these is chasing its goal to get the prize.
The other has achieved the goal and received the prize in hand. The sad thing is, most people get stuck in the first voice.
What an optimistic attitude says is, “Someday I will achieve it”.
But what an attitude of “this is for me” says is, “This is mine right now”.
So, if you change from an optimistic attitude to an attitude of “this is mine”, your life will immediately be upgraded.
This is called “Identity Based Motivation” in psychology. That is, don’t wait until you have success to say that you are a winner.
Don't wait for love to come to you to tell you're loved.
Instead, create the identity you want first, and then your brain will do everything it takes to make it a reality.
Studies show that those who make that identity their own before they have the evidence for it are the ones who tirelessly work to make that identity a reality every day and succeed!
(Please check the comment for research article information).
Wrong: “I'm trying to be successful”
Correct: “I'm already successful. I'm just gathering evidence for that right now.”
Wrong: “I hope I'll find my lover/lover.”
Correct: “I'm a deeply loved or desired person. People who love me deeply are coming to me.” Therefore, hold fast to your love even before it comes to you.
In the very same way, everything you desire and need-wealth, assets, money, self-confidence and peace, that is actively seeking you out.
So, Hasten forth and claim it; only then will it truly come to rest in your hands.
Have a enjoyable day ahead!