This post, as far as I can tell, was one of the hardest ones to made till now.
It started with a vague idea. People often feel outcasts from they're cycles. Often, but not always. Once Albert Einstein told us: "Time and space are relative...".
So I feel it is also a correct sentence: "reality itself is relative from individual to individual".
That's what's makes us all outcasts.
We can go further and say: "we are outcasts with common goals in mind".
At least, most of us are. Every one of us want to be happy. Love. Enjoy. And a bunch of other things. Think about it. The does and don'ts.
About future: people always are looking for real things, not fake ones. We can learn a lot about observing kids.
Have a deep breath. Every one of us are a drop in a sea of the multiverse.