"I'm looking for MILFs to fuck in my area, but I can't find any. Are they ignoring me?"
If you write an insensitive and thoughtless, no-effort personal ad like that, after a whole two months on a site (with a total of two sentences, both about you, in your profile, nog al), you colossal doofus, you titanic shitgibbon and worthless, grab-asstic piece of amphibian shit, most are definitely going to ignore you and block you without a backward glance. Making sure people know that you have a dick you want to get wet (which is a pretty safe assumption to be made of any man who isn't asexual) is not how you stand out from the crowd; it's very much how you remain part of it (and it is immense). Men like you are less than a dime a dozen. To stand out, for someone to even consider giving you more than five minutes of their time, you've actually got to make an effort, instead of them doing all the work and diving right onto your dick. In fact, lines like that sum up, perfectly, why women hate being on antisocial media sites and are so disenchanted that they almost never look at personal ads and/or their DMs (It's not necessarily that there definitely aren't women looking for partners, but they're very definitely not looking for ones like you.) Try harder and fail better, because that's disastrous and you deserve all the derision you'll get.
I simply cannot conceive of how you think that would appeal to anyone! Are you really that dense? Je ne sais pas!
For those of you fragile snowflakes who need the disclaimer: If you're not behaving like this, it isn't about you, so don't make it about you (because then it definitely is).
I have no desire to associate or interact with men who treat women as little more than objects for their sexual gratification. Seriously, WTF is wrong with you people? (Do not blame your inexperience for your attitude, because we can see through that BS right away.) On an antisocial media site that has over fourteen million users, most of them men who push the women to breaking point and quitting it in disgust, I can think of quite literally three men with whom I interact enough to not consider them dickheads. That is a depressingly small number.
Women are humans?? What kind of Feminazi post-modern cultural Marxism nonsense am I spouting now, right? Sheesh....
I honestly don't know how non-men online manage to not go insane from frustration and revulsion. (For some, it's a pretty close call.) I'm already pissed off with the sheer pig-hardheadedness of "open-minded" people who "just want to learn" and yet ignore/back-chat every response they get that doesn't go along with them, sympathise and give them what they want. I know I don't even see a tenth of it, probably far less than that. If the minimal-effort fuckbois spent as much time thinking, learning and adapting as they do fighting, they might have a chance of getting what they want, but no, Mr. Master-of-the-Universe has got it all figured out by age 21. Of course he does, despite not being able to master basic human decency or self-marketing! I know I'm a late bloomer, but I knew almost nothing about how to have relationships with women until I was 28. Seven years later, I'm still figuring that out and blundering badly. I'm working on it. (Well, mostly; sometimes I'm lazy and get distracted by fantastic boobs or butt, but that doesn't mean I forget everything I've learned.)
Fuck me with a rusty fish fork, but I'm losing faith in my gender (and I didn't have much to begin with before I joined Fratlife)! I'm starting to think I'm a fool for hoping these imbeciles can be reached and persuaded to do the work of changing their ways. Still, we can dream, right?
Ignorance is voluntary, though, and the majority of my gender seem determined to be intentionally celibate (which is why I don't believe the "involuntary" part of Incel; you douche canoes chose that for yourselves) and miserable, a hazard to themselves and others. To describe them as akin to lemmings throwing themselves off cliffs is demeaning to lemmings. Lemmings are at least cute and more likely to garner sympathy.
Meet the Ferengi
Of course, it's all the fault of females for being stuck-up bitches and frigid ice queens, right? Yeah, keep on telling yourselves that and see how well it goes for you.
Unfortunately, I'm coming to realise that these lost men who don't bother to step back, read, comprehend and understand aren't worth my time. Antisocial media sites aren't a catalyst for change (although I don't know what is). Maybe it has to come to them from interpersonal interactions with people they know and trust, coupled with a willingness to introspect, to experience the pain involved in doing one's own emotional labour, in learning empathy (among other things). Only then, hopefully, with empathy, will they stop swimming upstream against the current long enough to take it in and learn. To fuckbois, though, that's as alien a concept as making an effort to show there's anything more to them than their dicks, their height and their abs. I suspect that there really isn't; they're less than mediocre men and they know it.
I know, I know; I'm wasting my time and preaching to the choir, but sometimes a person needs to vent their frustration, voice their despair.
If you want to start shit, feel the need to wave a red flag for everyone to see, then I suggest you reconsider and fuck off right now, because I am fucking done!
I'm not even sure why I care. My best guess is I hope that someone sets them straight like I was, because I don't want to see another Elliot Roger, Paul Elam or Andrew Tate causing considerable harm to others (a very real possibility).
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