It is not having more or less personality. We must understand that there are people who live for others. That they adapt to others because their destiny is to do good. Who overdo their existence so that others are better off than they were. There are many ways to read what you experience. Unfortunately, people are used to thinking badly, to being afraid, to competing, to looking at others, to believing themselves to be better, to believing in ulterior motives. Few see anything beyond. And almost none of them are actually looking for something that is truly real. When you find real people. Who think differently. Who believe in what they say. They prove what they say. They do things the way they say they feel them. Yes, that's where what you say you're looking for usually is. Now you just have to take advantage of it.
The normal thing is to say I want this... When I will find someone like that... I would live happily with someone like that. But the reality is that you are completely inside that reality that you detest. You do what you say you don't want anyone. You move the way you don't like others to move. What you criticize is not others. It is your inability not to do the same.
Looking at yourself and analyzing yourself is the solution, yes. But not to say only what you don't want for yourself. The important thing. The only thing you can change is what you hate coming out of you.
You make the change in yourself. Not in others. It is you who changes. You are the one who doesn't want what you don't like. You are the one who starts moving the wheel. Not the one who goes off the rails because she doesn't like what she sees. We have a mentality that is too egocentric.
We continue to believe ourselves to be better and we think that the problem always comes from outside. The change comes from you, not from what you feel about others.
It is as simple as "setting an example". But we intend to set an example only by receiving what we want. This way it will never work no matter how much you meditate, how much you take care of yourself, how much you believe that... The truth is not found in what you receive but in what you give Until you let go of that, there won't be much change in what you receive. Now it's time to introspect. Restructuring. Reshape your beliefs perhaps. And value what you receive from what you give...because ultimately it is the same. Only you can get out of the loop and change your world. Change everything once and for all. Only in each one is the way out and the solution that brings the truth that you already have inside. Take advantage of the opportunity you have or let it pass you by again. It is in you!!
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