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7 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Sensuality, which I wrote about last time, is the basic condition of presence in intimacy. But there is something that precedes it and without which even presence does not reach its greatest depth: desire. Not desire as a biological reflex, but des...
7 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Sexuality as a language of identity, which I wrote about last time, shows us that intimacy is not just about what we do, but about how present we are in what we experience. And precisely this quality of presence brings me today to something that li...
6 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Love as a continuous process, which I wrote about in article 300, requires remaining present and curious in every dimension of the relationship. And there is one dimension we treat separately, as though it were something distinct from the rest of o...
5 Jun 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman
Shared values, which I wrote about last time, provide the direction for a couple. But direction alone moves nothing. What sets a relationship in motion, what keeps it alive and allows it to grow rather than solidify into a fixed form, is something...
5 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Mutual introspection, which I wrote about last time, brings you face to face with yourself in the relationship. But there is an even deeper level of a couple's stability, one that has nothing to do with communication skills or conflict management t...
4 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Love languages, which I wrote about last time, invite you to look more carefully at the other person. But there is an even deeper level of this looking, one that turns back inward: what do you know about yourself in the relationship, how do you con...
3 Jun 2026 3 minute read 2 comments luciman
The differences in style I wrote about last time explain why two people can give and receive love in complete parallel, without ever meeting in the middle. And that is precisely the heart of what I want to explore today: not whether your partner lo...
3 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Transforming frustrations into dialogue, which I wrote about last time, becomes even more complex when frustrations do not stem from isolated behaviours but from something deeper and harder to articulate: the fundamental differences between two peo...
2 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Gratitude, which I wrote about last time, shifts the lens through which you view the relationship, from what is missing to what exists. But even with the best intention to appreciate, frustrations arise. They are inevitable. And what you do with th...
1 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
Surprise and creativity, which I wrote about last time, keep a relationship in motion. But there is something simpler, more accessible, and equally powerful that we overlook precisely because it seems too simple to matter: gratitude. Not the kind d...
