There is a situation that I believe we all go through at least once in our lives, that is, it is that type of moment that if we could, we would avoid it in any way, but, unfortunately, there is no way.
Sooner or later we will experience a disappointment, a moment when we believe that something or someone is something incredible, but, in fact, it is just an illusion, generating pain and a lot of sadness in us. Who never fell madly in love with someone and then found out that that person wasn't quite what we thought, or decided to study something that in your head the profession was super cool, but in the end, you hated it.
Well, it would be good if you could avoid it, wouldn't it?
Well, getting personal, being the purpose of this post, I can say that I also went through this, as I said, as sure as drinking water to survive, it is certain that we will go through a sad situation with someone.
In my teens, I started to like a girl a lot and I fell in love with her, because I thought that person was incredible, beautiful in my eyes, intelligent, polite and super affectionate, a true Disney princess. At least that's how I saw her and for me I had finally found my great love.
Although at that time, we first became great friends, we talked about many things and had a lot of fun and cool times, there was a strong connection between us. One day it ended up that we kissed and started to get closer, even though we never dated, we had good times like that, with kisses, hugs, caresses and a lot of laughter.
Ok, but, what is the part where we can understand the message that all that glitters is not gold?
During this period when we were living the moment without commitment as I usually say, I tried several times to ask her to date, to be together and well, like any crazy person in love, I was already thinking about marriage and children haha. 😄
It turns out that during this period, in my attempts to date her, I realized that their words and attitudes often lacked sincerity. Because as much as I totally showed that I was in love and wanted something serious, she was always winding me up, giving me false hope, so much so that we stayed like that for a long time.
There was an incident, which was quite fateful, because on a certain day, I was talking to her, we were fine, in a good vibe and, as usual, I was trying to make our relationship official. She told me that day that she would seriously think about it and give me an answer, but unfortunately the other day, just on a social network, she posted a photo with another guy and in the caption, countless vows of love to this man and well, was really her boyfriend from that moment on.
There I began to see that she wasn't quite what I thought, that nice, fun person that we had good times with, she had acted in such a rude way, so “shit”, that I was really down about it. I wouldn't mind getting a no, but since she acted, telling me one day that she would think of us as boyfriends and the next appearing related to someone else, why wouldn't she talk to me? Why do something so weird and kind of without thinking about my feelings?
From that moment on, my princess had become the bad witch of history, so I realized that sometimes people just use us to calm their hearts, while we create expectations that will not be met.
All that admiration I had for her was lost, it hurt me too much and that's why I walked away from her, deleted her phone number, broke the links on social networks and moved on with my life far away from her. It was the best decision I made and I don't regret it.
Anyway, this moment is painful, but it is also a learning experience, where we begin to better understand that people are not always as good or brilliant as we think they are, so we learn to better filter relationships and avoid this type of situation in the future.
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